Free love - free love

Freedom is a sweet word. Immediately appears a yacht with swelling sails, sprawled arms, wings in the face and a peppermint chill in the tongue. There are free cash desks in the store, a uniform and your university and places in the tram. Is love free? Free love free-love, is the legacy of the hippies. Of course, they did not make any discovery, but justified the situation from the position of absolute love: the more people we make happy with our caress, the more good things will become in the world. Everyone loves everyone, long live freedom from prejudice, jealousy and possessiveness! In practice, it looked like this: two unfamiliar people could exchange glances, smile at each other and go "build love", and after a couple of days leave without reproach and resentment.

Today's understanding of free-love is devoid of the diversity of emotions of "children of flowers": elementary sex without obligations. And without spiritual affinity, which is love. Our mothers and dads to the question "you that, together?" Doing terrible eyes and saying: "Yes it's just sex, nothing personal." They hide and hide emotions now, for them it may be embarrassing, but physical attraction - well, what, you think, is like eating. By the appearance of emo, and with them and the hope for the return of feelings in fashion. :)

You are on the verge.

What's the matter? In situations of "one-sided free-love", the initiators are more often the guys, and the girls are assigned the role of humbly waiting Penelope. There are many plausible pretexts: for example, "I am a creative person." Do not be upset, because the new verse, it will show only you!

Why do you need it. Absolute monogamy can be simply bewildered by the ubiquitous "light" relationships of friends and heroes of serials to treason. What can I say? You must be able to listen to yourself and your desires. Although this is not easy, of course. It's another matter if you readily agree "Yeah, let's behave freely, by the way, I liked that girl for a long time." You together are clearly not holding a romantic passion, but friendship. Or maybe you're just not ready to admit that both have cooled down and no longer love each other?

And if you take a chance? Keep intimacy and warmth, if your couple is in the status of free-love, very difficult. No matter how liberated you are deprived of prejudice, you and your young man are not in words, to know that every evening his lips are kissed by another girl, and, perhaps, he likes a kiss more than yours.

Julia Sobolevskaya , specially for the site