So, who are they that think: I love a girl, and she will love another. In such a situation, when I "love" - to bring pain, it is easier to understand, understanding the feelings. Probably, that's why we'll just try to talk on behalf of a young man who loves. His beloved girl was taken by another. Not by force, but by feelings. And for the sake of this other, she tries to hide emotions. But, after all, he says "I love" so sincerely and honestly. It is he who is ready to lift this girl to heaven. Why does she love another and is it true love. And most importantly, how to defeat this other?
Well, let's imagine the situation and listen to the young man. This story will be an example of situations where a guy, when meeting a woman, wants to find a real serious relationship. Therefore, people who just want to find a girl for a while, such questions and their solutions will not be relevant. This situation is modeled for those who see the meaning of life in a loved one.
So, let's begin. I met this girl, not thinking that she would take a place in my life. She was just nice, positive and funny. From the very beginning I knew that she was in love with another and when they had conflicts, I was truly sorry. But then, over time, I realized that I do not only have friendly feelings. Time passed and everything changed. I felt that our friendship grows into sympathy, and then into love. I knew it was wrong, so I kept silent about what I dream about and what I want.
But, at some point, I realized that she, too, is experiencing something to me. Just a conscience does not allow her to show her feelings. She loves that, another, but she also feels a kind of love for me. This I realized after she admitted to me her feelings. I understand that I do not have the right to force her to do anything. I always try to restrain myself, because I understand that she is just afraid to rush and spoil everything. And with me. And with him. But I also realize that I can not stand it forever. Once, probably, I, even possibly not wanting it, put it before the choice. And I do not want her to suffer. But I myself do not want to suffer either. Therefore, of course, I would not like to go to such extreme measures. But, on the other hand, such a love triangle also will not lead to anything good. Therefore, looking at how she looks at me, how she feels, how she wants to be around, I often wonder how much she loves him. And if he likes, then why does he come to me? I do not want to spoil relations with her, but at the same time, I want to achieve it, I just do not understand how to do it better. That's why I want so much to know what to do in such situations, and, most importantly, whether to expect that she will still fall in love and choose me. Go, you have to try to forget her, try to become a good friend and never look for ways to become a person with whom she will spend her life.
This is the story. It should be noted that it is absolutely real, and not only with this young man this happened. There are a lot of guys who fall into such situations and sincerely try to solve them correctly. That's just the problem is that not all of this is obtained. What can you say to such a young man and how to behave himself further.
Firstly, it must be said that he is very lucky if he sees that he is really not indifferent to the girl. It would be worse if she did not notice the men at all. And if she does not want to take a more serious step just because her conscience does not allow her, then she is already thinking too much about what she has to cry about. In such situations it is necessary to rejoice that the lady of the heart still feels clearly not friendly feelings. So, he really has a chance, you just need to behave correctly.
So, what specific actions can be advised? First, in some cases it's better to stay idle. For example, do not show your desire for this girl. If she experiences because of her feelings, she will experience even more when a young man tries to express his emotions in physical form. That's why you should not try to hug and kiss the lady. She must make this step herself. It is when the girl decides to do such a thing, in fact, her choice will be made. Even in one kiss her feelings will manifest and, most likely, after that she will leave the other guy and come to this young man. Such women do not know how to lie, so this choice only says that she has already decided who she wants to be with.
What else can you advise in this situation? Probably, do not forget that each person has his own shortcomings. That's why if a guy sees that the other does something that the girl does not like, you can try to show yourself against the background of him in the best light. Just do not climb "out of the skin" and try to prove that her young man is bad. In general, you do not need to speak negative about it, as a girl can wake up feeling of protest, and she will begin to defend him. And this is not necessary. Simply, it is necessary to show your best sides, which can be used in opposition to the bad qualities of the other guy. It acts on women and, consciously or subconsciously, she will understand that this young man is the best. Some girls are really difficult to choose, because someone has already got used to someone, and someone unexpectedly broke into her life. But, if you act correctly and do not rush things, you can make it choose the guy who suddenly realized love for her and wants to do everything to just be together. Just need to become her knight, who never imposes himself, but, nevertheless, appears exactly when it is so necessary.