Summer is the time for holidays. And because many women hope at this wonderful time to meet their "half." And, of course, every woman dreams of living with this "half" all her life. Only here you can not always get what you want. How then can you cope with depression after a holiday? We will talk about this in this article. Do not you think that the resort romance is a naive deception?
According to statistics, only one of the ten novels in the resort grow into true love, and then into a wedding. Some women believe that if you meet, it's only in the summer. And so, with the onset of spring, they begin to "clean feathers" - lose weight, go to a solarium, buy new, beautiful things. But spring sooner or later comes to an end, and the desired fateful acquaintance has not taken place. And then plans to get acquainted is transferred to the summer time of the year, which is most conducive to new acquaintances.
As life itself shows, the majority of now married couples met in the summer. And it's not surprising, because summer is the most romantic time of the year. Lovely sun, warm summer thunderstorms, birds singing, beaches, the sea and its amazing sunsets fill the human soul with hopes and romanticism. Therefore, most women put their hopes in the summer, and long before his offensive, they are eagerly preparing for it, dreaming to meet their fate somewhere in a romantic place by the sea. Only now if one hopes only for the summer and the sea, then one can become a victim of depression. After all, rest on the sea is not eternal, sooner or later, from a fairy tale it is necessary to return to a gray, everyday life.
Unfortunately, the bulk of holiday romances remain only a memory that brightens up everyday life. Do you realize this, taking in the resort signs of attention of some nice stranger? Or do you hope that he will, and how else, will become your husband? Have you ever met women whose marriage resulted in a holiday romance? Even carefully planned plan of "capture" of the man, basically, leads only to a small continuation in the form of postcards for holidays, sms and several calls. And that's all. Further, and this ends, because often people who have become participants in the novel, live in different cities, countries or even on different continents.
After returning home to their relatives, but boring walls, having dropped the sensations of resort emancipation and carelessness, people become a victim of complete apathy. And this is in vain. Of course, everyday life is deprived of so many colors and vivid impressions, but it must be realized and perceived calmly, as a reality. Of course, exceptions to holiday romances happen and they turn into a long and serious feeling. But as we know, exceptions only confirm the rule. And only these few exceptions end with a wedding celebration.
If a woman's only goal in vacations is to find a husband at any cost, then this is very noticeable for men. And in no way you can hide it, even the indolent indifference to men will not help disguise this desire.
Yes, holiday romances are very easy to tie, but also quickly they come to an end. And this is due to the fact that most women hope for the continuation of such a novel, and men, in their majority, prefer a light temporary affair. And you, probably, are in full confidence that you met at the resort the very one, the only one? And so they were at that very exception to the rule? And if you are mistaken, what then?
Let us give an example. One woman every year worked hard to leave, she planned every second of rest, counted all possible variants of meetings, one of which would surely become fateful for sure. Every year she goes to indifferent archeological expeditions, expeditions to historical caves and so on, with only one purpose - to find her husband. In truth, much of what she did she did not like terribly - mosquitoes, wet caves, but she was suffering all this for her purpose to find a man who meets her requirements.
As a result of such a holiday, she alone returns home, exhausted and thin. And almost always it comes back with a feeling of complete disappointment in men. And instead of such a vacation, she could go to the sea and just relax there, sunbathe and forget about everyday problems.
If life is destined to meet love, then it will necessarily happen, and one should not frighten off love by its obsessive attempts to find it. Love comes by itself, suddenly bursting into your heart without your permission.
If you once catch a holiday romance, then do not forget about the following points, so as not to be disappointed later and not fall into apathy. Being in an environment different from the usual, for example on vacation, people almost always behave differently than usual. Basically, in such a situation, people are joyful and liberated, that's why it is problematic to consider these traits of a person's character for such a "festive" mood. Do not forget about it, talking with your young man.
Virtually everyone does not take holiday romances seriously. Awareness of the fact that such novels are short-lived due to the fact that people often live not only in different cities, but also in different countries, and even the holiday has the property of ending, just presses on them. And they deliberately try to invest in the holiday romance most of all, so that it turned out bright, enchanting.
The holiday romance is the twin brother of the novel "in the blind." You absolutely do not know anything about this person, you do not have common acquaintances, so he can tell as much untruth as his imagination is enough.
Any relationship should be safe. This applies not only to protection in sex. There are, in the world, unfortunately, marriage scammers, thieves and scammers who can take advantage of your gullibility and leave pennies in your pocket, pretending to be romantic admirers.
Do not take everything to heart. You can become a victim of the usual supplement to a good rest. Take the resort novel as an adult - consciously, aware of all that is happening.
Do not forget about these important moments and will not be disappointed by the holiday. It is possible that you will still fall into the category of exception and you will meet on vacation your soul mate, because love can be found anywhere and anytime.