What is the manifestation of male greed? You want a beautiful new dress, and he answers you that you already have a lot of them. You have long dreamed of taking a vacation to some European country, he says that Turkey is not worse. A similar list of examples of male greed can be continued for a long time. Almost every woman can give an example of this male defect.
Psychologists distinguish 3 typical situations in which the fact of greed in the stronger sex can be clearly observed:
1. The first date. To meet you, a man comes without a bouquet of flowers, you walk in the park, and if you go to the cafe, it will be inexpensive, and the order will include a maximum of two coffee. In addition, on his part, there may be a hint about paying you half of the bill.
2. With a man you live together for a couple of months, and maybe even a year. But during this time he gave you flowers only a few times. No subtle hints on your part that you love flowers, saw a beautiful dress, etc., he does not understand, or at least in every way shows that he does not understand.
3. In situations where a man requires substantial material costs (wedding, vacation, repairs, etc.), he tries in every way to save money on investments.
So what are the reasons for the greed of men? There are several of them:
- In those situations where a man with you is still little known, greed can be caused by doubts, caution, distrust. In such cases, the male mind appeals with the argument: "We are little acquainted, and you may not like me at all, why waste money?" ". On the one hand, it's logical, but on the other, it's somehow not very nice and not like a man.
- In those situations where you have been together for a long time or even married, a man can simply not really understand your subtle hints about a bouquet of flowers, ornaments, etc. In this case, it's better for him to say directly about your desires.
- In the case of flowers, perhaps, a man considers the purchase of flowers a waste of money, because, in his opinion, there is no benefit from them. But he pampers you with little presents and chocolates. Maybe this is about your situation?
- In the case of repairs, vacations, or other events that require large material investments, a man by nature can simply be economical, thrifty. These qualities are characteristics of his character. Therefore, they should not be altered. But in this case, it is said about saving during major acquisitions, rather than the necessary things used daily.
Note that if you do not accept the frugality of your man, it's better to part ways immediately amicably. Otherwise, it will not lead to the good. All your life together you will be bickering. You resent it because of saving money, and he does not understand what you are to blame.
Men quite often accuse women of commercialism, pettiness and self-interest, but do not take into account the fact that such a woman could often encounter a greedy man, who, in turn, provoked the appearance of unflattering qualities in a woman.
A woman is always pleased to be with a man who will not spare her money and will do everything to make her feel with him like a stone wall and just happy.