But if in the animal world sex, or rather mating, is caused by the necessity of procreation, then for the people this need may occur only a few times throughout life. Much more attractive is the other side of sex - sensuality. Today, sex is an important aspect of life. For some, sex is a fashion, a sporting interest, a way of life, a cult, a goal for self-affirmation, a manifestation of strength. For others it is an expression of love, and for someone it's a marriage obligation, a means of earning ... .. In other words, sex is that side of life that is equally interesting to everyone. The attitude towards sex depends on education, way of life, culture, morality. Sex can be both beautiful and ugly, with the use of violence and cruelty. But whatever the person, in whatever environment he might have been growing up, the first sexual experience for him is always exciting. The first sex can both positively and negatively affect life. Negative experience can lead to both debauchery, and frigidity and even mania.
In the Soviet era, our fellow citizens who entered adulthood had absolutely no idea how to properly protect themselves for the first time. Modern teenagers already know about sex for almost all of them. Any information is available. They are well aware that in addition to the pleasant side, sex can give and problems. The first problem is unwanted pregnancy. This is the kind of underwater stone that is not thought about during the first sexual experience. Many girls and guys quite sincerely believe that it's impossible to "fly in" for the first time, especially with interrupted sexual intercourse. But young people are very mistaken. Moreover, there are cases when pregnancy occurs during prelude during ejaculation near female genital organs, bypassing the act of defloration. The hymen has a porous structure, and the spermatozoa are so small that they penetrate through the pores completely unimpeded. The next pitfall is sexually transmitted infections. In order to avoid the unpleasant side of sex, you need to know how to properly protect for the first time.
Before giving advice, I want to recall that the first sexual act should be your conscious decision. No drunk company. So, do not settle for sex without a condom in any way. Despite the fact that the current youth is sexually "shod," about 70% of adolescents who have an active sex life deliberately neglect condoms. But this is one of the most affordable, safe for health and effective means. Among the male half, there is an opinion that the condom reduces sensory sensations. But modern condoms are made of the finest material-latex, whose thickness is measured by microns. Yes there are also such, with all sorts of additional "zamorochki", the action of which is aimed at obtaining new sensations. And some minor inconveniences can be tolerated, but sex will be protected. After all, unwanted pregnancy causes problems not only for the girl, and infections undermine health, lead to infertility and even to early impotence in the future.
The condom is worn before the sexual intercourse, and removed after the end, avoiding direct contact with the mucous membrane of the vagina. And tight it does not pull, but leave room for sperm. Do not buy large condoms with a small penis, otherwise it can slip and stay in the vagina and, conversely, a small condom with a large penis may burst at the wrong time. The process of defloration is somewhat painful. Everything depends on the personal pain threshold, the compatibility of partners, the elasticity of the hymen, the amount of lubrication and other reasons.
Normally, the girl during prelude should be given a lubricant that protects the vaginal mucosa from injuries, tears, cracks, and also provides a slip making sex enjoyable. But sometimes lubrication is not abundant enough due to, for example, psychological problems. Then, especially with defloration, to protect against microtraumas it is necessary to resort to artificial lubrication. On the drugstores you will find special gels and lubricants.
If your young man is too categorical to "rubber protection", then at the first intimacy you can resort to such tools as Patentex Oval or Pharmatex, Contraceptin. This pharmacy chemical spermicidal means - contraceptives, which are laid in the vagina before sexual intercourse for the purpose of immobilization and destruction of spermatozoa. Preparations form a protective foam, which can also replace its own lubricant, and therefore reduce discomfort during defloration. They are introduced easily and painlessly. The hymen consists of one or several holes through which the menstrual blood flows, so a candle, a pill, and even more so the cream will go unhindered. The above-described chemicals can not be saved from the threat of infection, so they can only be resorted to in full confidence of the "purity" of the partner, their effectiveness in this case is 80%. But, if you doubt the partner, and have used as a contraceptive by these means, that is one more "wand-zachalochka" hexicon. Effective, reliable and convenient drug in candles for the prevention and treatment of many infections of the genital area. Just remember that they can use it no later than two hours after the intima, for this it is enough to insert into the vagina just one candle of the drug. Hexicon is active against many pathogens. These include: spirochete pale, causing syphilis, chlamydia - chlamydia, gonococcus - gonorrhea, trichomonas - trichomoniasis, and genital herpes in general is reduced to zero. Hexicon has good tolerability, it is even prescribed for pregnant and breastfeeding women.
All girls are recommended after the start of sexual activity, and even better before they decided to take this step, visit a women's consultation. It is necessary to remember that the optimal age for having sex is not earlier than 17-18 years. A female doctor, after the act of defloration, will check you for damage, prescribe contraceptives, take smears for examination and, if necessary, prescribe a treatment.