She found herself pregnant. But for some reason, he begins to think about how a man will react to the news that they will have a child.
In fact, pregnancy for a man is a greater shock than for a woman. All because pregnancy for a girl is a normal natural process, roughly speaking, we are created to give life.
How does a man react to the news that they will have a child?
The news that they will have a child, a young man still full of ambition and desire to conquer the whole world, will make a unique shock in his mind. The authors of articles in glamorous magazines convince us that a man reacts to the news about a girlfriend's pregnancy always with joy and insane dances around the future mother. But, the fact remains that if a man was not morally ready for the appearance of a child, then the first reaction is a stupor, a fear of the unknown and a feeling that the whole world has collapsed.
A man, or rather a young man, immediately begins to think that he was simply hunted. He lost the most valuable and important thing in life - freedom. Now his whole life will be devoted to diapers - ryazhonkam and vanity around a small crying child. He had so many plans for the future, but in the end, he did not achieve anything and now it's unlikely that he will be able to do so.
Sometimes, it takes a long time to explain to a man that the appearance of a child does not mean the end of the world. Initially, he feels only anxiety and fear. It can be argued that men are more emotionally experiencing the news of pregnancy than the women themselves.
To understand such a reaction of a man can: all and always scared the changes in life, which do not depend on us. The appearance of a child means for the man the addition of his duties. His responsibility increases in two. He now needs to care not for two, as before, but also about one little man.
There must pass the time before the man realizes and accepts the news that they will have a child and will begin to rejoice with this whole soul.
The appearance of a child is always a change in the life of any couple. During this period, the relationship between a man and a woman is checked, to what extent they are firmly connected and whether they can be together at such a crucial moment.
In their lives everything changes - plans, desires. The man understands that the burden of responsibility is too heavy - it is because of this that the reaction to the news of pregnancy can not cause in him the proper in firmly connected with each other and whether there can be a mix-up.
As a man reacts to the news that they will have a child, depends on a lot. His reaction depends on his upbringing, his moral qualities and his attitude towards his woman.
If he is able to take with dignity life difficulties and changes, then everything in this pair will be fine.
Although, it is not necessary that a man will react in this way. If you have planned a child for a long time, then hearing the news that he will soon become a daddy - a man will grow wings behind his back. He will be happy - you will see it in his eyes. At the same time, a woman for him will be the subject of admiration and deification.
To the news of pregnancy is not the strongest blow and, in the future, your man felt comfortable, do not forget that he also needs your support and care. Men are very difficult to survive the moment when they get less attention from their women. He begins to feel unnecessary to you.
Pregnancy is a test of your relationship. Checking how serious your man is treating you, is he ready to devote his life to you and your children. Is he willing to sacrifice everything, if only your family was happy.