So, why can there be constant quarrels and breakdowns with a guy? And it's okay, you always differed so restlessly conflicted temper, but all friends and acquaintances remember you as an endlessly patient and flexible girl who will never arrange a scandal without understanding the reason and without trying to first eliminate it peacefully. What kind of turbidity happened in your bright head? However, this is not even asked about your friends, but the same guy whose head is poured all those pokes and cracks, generously scattered by your exuberant hand. In this case, you very quickly move away, and immediately the first run to put up and smooth your guilt. But all this only for the sake of that soon again to start quarreling and provoke nervous failures both at itself, and at the guy. Why is it so?
First of all, pay attention to your health. No, we do not want to hint at the fact that your constant breakdowns are connected with some kind of psychological disorders. Perhaps it's just that your body gave some failures - for example, due to taking any medications, the hormonal background was disrupted. This very often causes increased nervousness or embitterment. In this case, timely access to a specialist will save the nerves of both of you and help to solve the problem as soon as possible. Well, in the meantime, try to drink a sedative - yet, the guy is also not to blame, that you have some health problems. His business in this situation is to support you as much as possible and not give cause for another scandal, struggling to avoid sharp angles.
In the ill-fated period, which in medicine is called "PMS", we often become particularly irritable. We are not satisfied with absolutely everything: how he looked, how he is dressed, what he is saying. We are able to break out at any moment and burn to ashes in our aggression. Not all, of course, but such are among us. Therefore, if you live separately, try to see less with your beloved in this ill-fated period, in order to avoid unnecessary quarrels and nervous breakdowns.
Another reason for quarreling lies directly inside you. And she is called distrust. And generates a mistrust of one powerful feeling - jealousy, which even old nerves can dissolve. You will see to yourself: perhaps you are groundlessly jealous of him to every pillar? Maybe you're going to work with podkolkami that he was waiting for the employees? Or maybe you always think that he turns on the street, so as to look with an appraising look at some beautiful woman with endless legs? Well, then, at the same time, take a look at the whole situation in the area where your man has turned his gaze. Is it possible that a BMW sports car parked on the roadside - just the one that your boyfriend has dreamed of all his life? Do not be angry with him instantly, do not start right in the middle of the street. He is going with you. Where he did not accidentally look. And do not look at his feet all the time. But, if the situation still touches you, arrange for him a silent boycott at home. Only do not embarrass (and they think that we are disgracing them with public scandals) a quarrel in the street. Or make a response maneuver. And with lust, look at some attractive young man. Only be sure that the darling noticed it. Believe it, he will understand your lesson.
And now let's be honest with ourselves. Perhaps those quarrels and conflict situations that you arrange for your boyfriend for no apparent reason are an internal boycott of your subconscious, which means your desire to part with this man? You met, and everything was fine with you, but the further your relationship goes - the more you understand that he is not the same person, not the life partner with whom you would like to go into old age hand in hand? After all, and this can be - there is nothing shameful or terrible in this. Rather, on the contrary: it is better to realize in time that you are not a couple, and to disperse than to understand this when you are already uniting something more than just romantic relationships. The only question is how you behave, concluding that you can not be together ... Maybe you just do not want to put this point? Are you scared, are you afraid that you will not find another guy yourself? Or just do not want to be the initiator of a break in relations? When two forces struggle within a girl, one of which pushes her to truthfully clarify the relationship, and the second forces to lie and make quarrels and breakdowns so that the guy leaves himself, then his whole life turns into a real hell. There is nothing worse than such a struggle. And it's better to pull yourself together and talk frankly with him, than to pester scandals and finish off with your coldness. He is also a living person, he loves you, if he does not quit, despite your unbearable character. Be loyal to him: he deserves to be truthful.
In fact, the reasons that cause constant scandals, breakdowns and quarrels with a guy, maybe even a car and a small cart. Perhaps it's some little things in life: for example, he does not provide enough for you, he is not as romantic as the neighbor of Irki's neighbor and he does not have a cool car, he does not know how to dance and does not write songs. But in fact you for something have grown fond of it? Surely, he is sensitive and kind and very cares about you - and this is so rarely seen in modern men! So learn to appreciate the relationship that you have, and not overshadow them with ridiculous scandals.