"Now if I could so ..." - thinks the average Russian woman, looking at the antics of fatal beauties from the TV or how one glance solves the problems of some colleague. Or a hamovatuyu young lady, who managed with a couple of words to bypass the line of the polyclinic and get to the therapist first and secretly dreams of taking courses to teach the skills of a bitch.
So, how to learn to be a bitch? Going to any bookstore, you can easily find the answer to this question, because the shelves are full of editions with catchy names: "The Big Book of a Bitch", "The Encyclopedia of a Bitch", "Become a Bitch - Change for the Better." The number of such publications can not be counted, but in fact it turns out that such kind of bitch textbooks do not give a complete picture of the behavior of women of this kind and consist entirely of instructions how to become impudent, harmful and rude to everyone without blushing with a dense blush and neither By no means apologizing after such a verbal attack. As for men, these publications recommend that all representatives of the strong half of humanity be pressed to the nail, to make knights henpecked. Such advice resembles a brief guide to the education of feminism.
But the purpose of the article is not to develop universal hatred, but to help women in educating themselves.
Who is such a bitch?
In order to decide whether to learn to be a bitch or not, first you need to find out who she is. Definitions are more reliable than a dictionary article from an explanatory dictionary of the Russian language, not to be found. In the dictionary of Dal, this interpretation is given to this word: a stinker is the corpse of a dead animal or cattle; carrion, carrion. I doubt that women want this. In the dictionary of Ozhegov, a more modern source, it is said: a bitch is a scoundrel, a scoundrel. Also not the best prospect.
The point is that now the meaning of this word has changed significantly. It no longer carries in itself that negative coloring, is not abusive and abusive, today a woman who considers herself a bitch does not mean that she is a scoundrel and a scoundrel. On the contrary, the current bitch is someone who can be polite and sweet with relatives, friends, and friends, can help in difficult times, but in those life situations, when necessary, becomes rigid, resolute, includes cold reason. Bitch, as a rule, is tastefully dressed and well-groomed. Otherwise it's a primitive brawler.
So, at the moment, a bitch is a beautiful intellectual who knows the value of himself and everyone around him.
The bastard house.
How does an ordinary woman behave at home? Children - husband - washing - cleaning - cooking - again children - husband ... A vicious circle. And how does this all happen to a bitch? Do not believe it - the same way, because a real bitch is so smart that he will not allow himself to be at home. Within the boundaries of native penates, she is an ordinary woman, as well as all of us who need support of her husband, children's love, warmth and comfort. But there is one "but", the bitch is less scandalous. She has the intelligence not to sink to cries and reproaches, she solves questions very diplomatically, including cold reason.
Is it worth it to learn to be a bitch at home? Of course, yes. After all, these features can help to save the family, not to tell the husband of excess in anger, to find the only correct decision. How to learn this? Very simple. To begin with, I do not wear an old robe at home, but something cozy, but it's no less beautiful. Then remove the curlers from the hair and never wear it again. And to be yourself, the same loving and good wife, who does not seek reasons to quarrel, and even arising difficulties solves easily and beautifully. After all, each of us is just that, just some life circumstances prevent us from revealing ourselves.
Bitch at the office.
A lot has been said about bards in the offices. They are very different from the domestic darling bitch. These are calculating business ladies, who are stubbornly going to the top of the career ladder. Sometimes, unfortunately, on the heads and in this it has no equal. Bitch knows what she needs from life, adequately assesses her work, requires the same from the employer. Also receives, because the bitch never will allow himself to perform work at a level below the best.
How to learn to be a bitch in the office? To begin with, make sure that the work is to your liking, and you are able to perform it at a very high level. If not, change the work. If yes - believe in yourself, strive for the result, start working inspiringly, and not looking at the clock in anticipation of the end of the working day. And, you see, the management will note your efforts. And this is an additional incentive to aspire upwards, to all the best.
A skilful guide, how to learn to be a bitch.
- love not only everything around, but also yourself;
- discover talents, abilities, abilities and develop them;
- do not hesitate to demand that you evaluate your work;
- learn to live not only emotions, sometimes include the mind;
- be ready for change in life;
- no matter what, be yourself, follow this guide only if you really need it and it does not disagree with your life principles.