Each woman, becoming a mother, acquires even more responsibilities, not only in the home, but also in caring for the child. And it seems that nothing can be done, because so much has fallen on: cleaning the house, cooking, caring for the baby, walking with him, the constant attention that he requires. The day of the young mother takes place in cares and haste, there is almost no time for herself, as well as time for sleep. One day is often like the other. And how to sustain all this morally, and still continue to enjoy the appearance of the baby in the family?
The way out, in fact, is simple - do not do what you do not have time. Distribute the priorities, make a plan for a day or two, then for a week and try to investigate it. Of course, if you are not used to planning, it will be difficult at first, and then you will get involved in such a rhythm and be able to do everything that is planned.
Remember that your main goal is to take care of the baby, about his health and good mood. Auge is in second place - cooking for the family, keeping the house in perfect order, and also keeping themselves in order. In any case, do not forget about you, about your rest. After all, if you will not be able to take care of your sarcasm, then who will do it for you?
Very many of them are spinning like squirrels in a wheel, they do not get enough sleep at night due to a capricious baby and constant feeding, and in the afternoon, instead of lying down together with a smile for a day's sleep, tend to clean up at this time. Why do you need such cleaning, if you are exhausted and like a sleepwalker? It is better to give this time to your rest, and if the mother is nearby, then the child will sleep longer.
The main thing is about the baby
Of course, the first thing that mom cares about is that the baby is not hungry, healthy, clean, happy and cheerful. Feeding the baby, especially in the first months of life, is often very often, there is no way to do without a mother. To change a diaper, walk with a baby, buy it and give it time for entertainment - this is also, most often, the duty of the mother. But this can be done by anyone else in the family. And you will have a little time.
If you are out with the baby at home, you can do everything with him, especially when he grows a little. Now on sale there are special slings, in which you can put the child, while your hands will be free, and you can do something else. Of course, you will need time to use it, but it's a good way for moms who want to do everything.
Do everything according to the plan - cleaning in an apartment or a house in one day, washing and ironing in the other, adla cooking allow a small amount of time each day. As a variant, you can prepare food for two or three days in advance, and then just reheat it. Do not forget that most of the time will go away all the same on the baby and caring for him.
Getting out of work or working from home?
There comes a moment when a woman decides that it's time to go to work. It can be connected with several reasons: insufficient financial well-being of the family, unwillingness to give up a career, or because routine no longer allows you to live and breathe normally. In this case, the mother returns to the office, and some of her responsibilities may be taken by relatives (husband, grandparents).
As an option, you can invite a nanny for the child, and keep the household chores. Or you can hire a woman who will run the farm and look at the baby in parallel. If this option does not suit you, you can give the child to a day nursery or a children's garden (depending on his age). If you have parents who live not far away, do not refuse and from their help, it will bring pleasure to them and a few free hours to you.
If you feel comfortable at home with a baby, but you do not have enough money or personal development, then you can work at home. The blessing exists the Internet and this problem to solve very simply. Many women, sitting in the decree, become freelancers and time, earn well. In addition, they communicate with other people, they constantly draw new information from different sources, they try to learn, they learn to plan their time, they get a charge of positive emotions and can realize themselves.
What can be better than the combination of family and work that bring true pleasure to a woman?
How to remain attractive and well-groomed?
It is very important that a woman, sitting at home with a child, does not forget that she is a woman. Beautiful, beloved and desired. Of course, it is very difficult, especially in the first time after childbirth, to carve even a minute for yourself. But it's also important that you do this from the very beginning, because by running yourself, then it's much more difficult to get into shape. Give yourself at least 15-20 minutes a day, then you can increase this time.
Agree to be married or with someone from relatives that they will help you. For example, when the husband returns from work, he can devote a certain time to the baby, and you should take a relaxing shower, just sit in silence or make a manicure. You can spend these minutes only on yourself, bring yourself in order.
It is very important that you have the opportunity to escape from your home at least once or twice a week, go to a hairdresser or a beautician, buy yourself a new dress or a sweatshirt, go to a movie or an exhibition, in general, treat yourself and rest your soul. The main thing that your husband understands and supports you in this, only then will you be able to do it. He, in fact, will also be pleased that his wife pays attention to her appearance, figure and state of mind and tries to look like the best!
Some women experience certain difficulties after childbirth, as well as psychological problems associated with changes in their body. Someone lowers the arms and does nothing, others press on the exercises to come to the right form. Do not go to extremes, try just to devote some time to exercises, in a few months you will return to your form.