Everything happens in our lives for the first time. First love, first kiss, first sex. Everyone has this according to their scenario. The first affinity with a man is a very important event in the life of a girl, which she remembers forever. It is on how the first sex will be in the future and the whole intimate life. Sometimes before the first sex many girls are tormented by doubts whether it is worth doing and fear of the expected pain. And then the question arises on how to behave at the first intimacy with a man, because of this behavior depends very much, and most importantly, memories - pleasant or not.
The main fears of the first intimacy
Most girls experience great fear because the first sex brings pain. But such pain is not great, and bleeding is not strong. In the event that the girl has a dense hymen, after the first intimacy, a lot of blood may appear. If the bleeding does not stop for some time, you should consult a doctor. There are cases when there is no blood after the closeness. Typically, this depends on the structure and thickness of the hymen. And how to behave at the first intimacy with a man, if there is a lot of pain? Here there are two options: the first - a guy can try to get into you sharply and strongly (you do not have time to slow his muscles and get scared of pain), the second - he will control himself and do everything quietly. These two ways are good, it's up to you. To have sex next time is recommended for 3-5 days after intimacy. Through this time there should be healing of tears of the hymen.
By the way, guys also have their fears of first sex. The main fear is premature ejaculation. In this case, you need to give your partner caresses, which will reduce his tension and contribute to the fact that he can focus on their feelings. And you should get excited about it. Remember that the preliminary preludes with loss of virginity will help moisten the vagina with natural lubrication, which will facilitate the introduction of the male penis. It will be very appropriate if you admire a man that he will perceive as support.
Doubts away
How you behave depends on your first impression. That's why it's worth throwing away all fears and doubts. Try to prepare yourself morally in advance. If you are visited at least the slightest doubt, do not rush. Well, if you firmly decided to go to the victorious end, then remember the following: do not use a lot of alcohol before first sex, a maximum - a glass of wine or champagne for relaxation.
Conditions during the first sex
She plays a very important role during the first sexual intercourse. The usual setting is perfect. For example, if you retire with a man in your room, where you feel confident and safe. It is very important that there are such attributes as a comfortable bed and a bathroom. You need to make sure that no one disturbs you. Pick up for yourself relaxing music, take care of dim lighting. It will be good to use a special lubricant, so that if you can not get enough excited, avoid unpleasant dryness in the vagina.
Positions for the first sex
You need to choose those postures in which you can control the movements of the partner. From the postures fit: the classic missionary posture (woman at the bottom), "Doggy style" (if you feel pain, do not bend your arms in the elbows, while raising your lower back higher), "Rider" (here you can control penetration yourself), " Spoons "(the woman lies on her side).
If you feel pain during the first sex, you need to make a movement of the pelvis forward. This will reduce pain in case of tearing.
Contraception
Remember that with the first sexual contact you can not only become pregnant, but also become infected with infectious diseases. Therefore, it is worth thinking about contraception. The best option is a condom. A properly selected condom of high quality is lubricated and, as a rule, not felt. It is necessary to discuss the methods of contraception in advance with the partner.