For example, it can be a gift. You in fact know, that likes and what your young man dreams. It is not necessary that this is something very expensive. The main thing is that it must be desirable. Favorite perfume, exclusive edition, warm scarf with his name is only a small part of what you can give. Try to pick up some kind of blow, which he will definitely be happy as a child. Give her and just say: I was wrong, sorry, I really love you. If he also loves, then he will accept and understand you, your repentance.
If you have a poetic talent, you can write him a verse, expressing all the emotions, and putting in your rhymes your apologies. All people appreciate gifts made with their own hands. It can be any thing, the main thing is that it bears in itself your emotions, your love. You can even just write a beautiful letter by hand and send it to him through someone. But it should not look like it's just scary to look into his eyes. Try to beat everything so that it looks very romantic. Men in fact are also romantic, although they do not always show this, therefore, it will be 100% pleasant for him to see such an act in your performance.
Another rather banal, but effective way is a romantic dinner. Still, it is not for nothing that they say that the way to the heart of a man lies through the stomach. Prepare all the tastiest and most beloved of your young man, dress effectively and tell him about your feelings, about how sorry you are. If his heart melts, then the evening turns into a romantic night. In bed, you can allow something that he loves very much, but you solve it extremely rarely. Let rejoice if it does not go against your principles. Still, even to be forgiven, do not be humiliated and rape your personality.
If your quarrel is due to your behavior, outlook and attitude to life and he says that you need to change, then think about whether he really is right. It often happens that people start to change and break someone "under themselves." Often, they do it out of good motives, not realizing that they simply destroy the person and when they change it, they will understand that it is a fake, and it is difficult to love a fake. Therefore, if you know that everything is exactly like this, think about whether to ask for forgiveness in general. Of course, you love him very much, but does he love you if he can not accept the one you are. Perhaps in such a situation it is better to leave, because such a confrontation brings pain and always destroys the relationship.
If you understand that he is right, then decide for yourself whether you can change. Do not give empty promises, because they will lead to even more quarrels and misunderstandings. In general, you should not talk much, prove by your deeds. If he believes that you are not goal-oriented and do not achieve anything in life, start at least something to do. Let him understand that this is important for you, and you want to change everything. But just always remember that all this you do not only for him, but for yourself. In a greater degree for myself. After all, he does not want you to act like a robot, without thought, doing everything he says. The purpose of your young man is to explain to you that you are wrong, and to help make better not his life, but yours. If he sees that you just fulfill his tasks without even trying to understand and understand - it's very hooked and disappointed. A loving person will never allow himself to be violated by a person and this kind of behavior will lead to even more quarrels. So try to act so that he understands that you are trying, slowly and confidently go to the goal, and his words for you are not empty sounds, but on the contrary, have become something important, as important as he is in your life .
How to ask forgiveness from a beloved guy? Probably, so that he believed that you really hurt and hurt that you hurt him, hurt, spoiled the mood, perhaps even humiliated. In the heat of quarrel we sometimes say very harsh and unpleasant things to catch and prick. Only then, when the anger subsides, comes the realization that our actions are very painful and even in their own way mean. The fact is that the closest ones hurt most of all. This is not surprising, because they know all the secrets, all the problems and all the fears. It is they who can say something that will blast in the heart no worse than the sharpest knife. To say a bitter word, to point out the mistakes that a person hates himself is very easy and simple. Anger in us compels us to do this with special art and pleasure. We seem to forget that beloved people suffer from this and are very worried. Therefore, you should always try to restrain yourself, even if you really want to offend and offend. Do not forget that a rush of anger will pass, but the sediment from such words will remain for a long time. And even when a guy forgives you, he has already put off in his head that you can not be trusted, because you will wrap it against him. That is why, sometimes it is so difficult to ask for forgiveness, neither gifts nor poems help. It's just that in such situations we act really meanly, without even noticing it and not wanting, in fact, to hurt. And in order for us to be forgiven, we need to gain confidence again. Sometimes it needs to be spent more than one week, so that the person thaws again and lets go of the offense. Of course, loving people almost always forgive, but in their hearts remains a bitter imprint. So try never to speak rash words, then not to ask forgiveness from your beloved guy, and if this happens - draw conclusions and do not repeat mistakes, because then you can lose your true love.