In fact, sixteen years is not so much as you think. Of course, many of your friends already have relationships with the guys. But! Remember that all their stories and boasts are far from the truth. Now it may seem to you that they do not lie, but in fact, so it is. But they lie either to you or to themselves. At the age of sixteen, the guys practically do not think about serious relationships. Of course, they like the process of meeting, kissing and, perhaps, sex. But they do not dream about anything more serious, unlike you.
If you say: I'm 16 years old and I still do not have a boyfriend, then young people simply do not see in you what they see in others. And it's not bad, it's excellent. With age you will understand. In the meantime, think about what you want from the relationship. How do you even imagine your romantic meetings, dates, relationships?
If you want to have a relationship with a more mature young man, honestly answer yourself - are you ready for a serious relationship. Really serious. A guy who is more than twenty years old, wants to see an adult, intelligent, independent enough girl who can help and support, which will understand his problems. And believe me, at his age they are really more serious than you. Can you be with him when necessary, find a common language with his friends, be on equal terms with them? If something happens to him, you will have the opportunity to take a taxi and come to the other end of the city? I can ask you hundreds of such questions. Can you answer them in the affirmative? Of course, if it's a guy with a barely finished vocational school in your yard, then you can not think about it. But do you need it? If you start at sixteen with someone horrible, then by the age of twenty you are happily alive with a forty-year-old alcoholic Vasya in his basement. So think carefully, can you be next to a normal adult guy.
Unfortunately, even if you are an intelligent and erudite girl who feels older than her peers, in the company of such a young man you will still be a child. And there is nothing wrong with that. Just in this period, the age difference is really palpable. Even if a young man loves you, such a relationship will not last long, because in your behavior there will always be a slippage of "childhood", quite typical for your age. And, as I said, he needs an adult girl who knows how to be wise, to make compromises and at least knows something about life. So for now, these guys are not for you.
If you want to meet with a peer, you should forget about any romance. The maximum that you get is a cocktail in the club, and even then it's not a fact that he can lead you there. It will only happen if the young person has rich parents. Of course, he can earn something himself, but at the age of sixteen the guy will spend more money on the next game or prefix rather than on the girl. So get ready to spend the evenings on the bench for a bottle of beer. If you do not like such prospects, then you do not need a guy yet.
Understand, at that age, only a few can give something to a girl. The bulk of young people think only of sex and beer. And most girls are happy with it. Do you really also want this? If yes - go ahead. Show that you are the same as the rest and you will necessarily have a boyfriend. And you will be fused with the gray mass.
At the age of sixteen it seems that you are already really very adult and life has cracked, because everyone has someone, and you do not. But believe me, it will take a couple of years and priorities change. Many girls are then really ashamed of themselves for such behavior and illegibility. Youthful maximalism forces us to follow the crowd. We buy clothes, choose a subculture, we find a guy just to keep up with others, so that they do not laugh in the classroom so that they will not mock the company. And only a few can resist this and go their own way. If your friends do not understand this and do not appreciate, if they can not support you the way you are, then they are not adults at all, and not friends at all. People who matured to normal relationships will never condemn a girlfriend for not having a boyfriend. It generally ceases to matter. As you age, you begin to understand that love does not come so easily, and it is already reluctant to give it up for "to be." Many girls say that it's better to be alone for a while, to live for your own pleasure.
So do not worry so much because you do not have a boyfriend. Of course, now everything seems terrible and disgusting, but it really is not. In a couple of years you will sincerely laugh at these problems.
Think, do you want just a guy or love? If love, then it comes when it's destined and there's nothing you can do. If you are destined to find her at sixteen - you will find, unexpectedly and where you least expect. But if, love should appear a little later, do not worry, suffer and pay attention to the opinion of limited people. It is better to spend your youth on various hobbies, new acquaintances, communication and finding friends, rather than on tears and depression because of guys who in fact are still very young boys. Think about it, and stop worrying. In a year or two, everything will be different. You will begin to study at the university and you will understand that those guys with whom you communicated before this are far from all the varieties of male representatives. In the meantime, just do not pay attention to those who want to offend and prick you by the lack of a guy.
The presence of a peasant is a pride for those who have absolutely nothing to brag about. Remember this properly and do not level with them, bothering by the principle: "Oh, I'm already 16, but I still do not have a guy - probably, I'm terrible, ugly and uninteresting" is not worth it. You do not have a guy, not because you're worse, but because you, on the contrary, are better. And your requirements for men are higher. When you completely grow up to the relationship, as young people grow to them, you will have not just a guy, but a loved one.