Starting a relationship with a young man, many girls think about how long they will be. After all, only in adolescence, girls, when dating, rarely look far into the future. But the older a woman becomes, the more she wants to have a relationship with a young man turned into a marriage and a long life together. However, in order to further have a strong relationship, you must initially behave so that a man would like to be with you more than one week or a month.
How to build a strong relationship that will bring happiness to both of you? This question is not so difficult to find the answer. It's just necessary to always soberly assess the situation, do not allow yourself too much and be able to compromise. But unfortunately, not everyone understands what exactly these concepts mean. So let's talk in more detail about how to build strong relationships.
Do not overplay
Starting a relationship with someone, many women try to show themselves from the best side. They tend to behave as they do not lead in everyday life, play along with young people, pretend that they share their tastes and interests. In order to have a strong relationship, this way you can not. More precisely, you can, but only if you are sure that you can behave this way always. However, as practice shows, practically no person can constantly play and not allow himself to be himself. That is why, starting a relationship, it is still more to show yourself real. Of course, this does not negate the femininity and sexuality of the girl. But at the same time, you do not need to introduce yourself as an impeccable lady, if by themselves you are a reckless "neighbor's girl".
Know how to express discontent
Another mistake of people beginning to meet, which then leads to terrible quarrels and partings - inability to point out mistakes to each other. At the beginning of the relationship, many close their eyes seeing that the other half is not right, afraid to offend her and bring a conflict. As a result, a person gets used to the fact that he does everything right and when the lover does not stand his nerves with time and yet he expresses himself, resentment and misunderstanding begin, accusations that love has passed. To build a normal relationship, you need not be afraid to tell the truth. The question is only in what form this truth is provided. It's never worth constantly criticizing, and even more so, insulting a loved one. But it's neat to notice that you do not really like this or that, having confirmed your words with clear and concise arguments - it is possible and necessary. Thus, people learn to listen to each other's opinions and change something in themselves to get along together.
Say jealousy "no"
If you want to build a normal healthy relationship, you should never allow yourself excessive jealousy and the desire to control. Remember that everyone has an unshakable right to privacy and personal space. If you want a person to have a serious relationship, this implies trust. In the case when there is no trust, one should not count on a long-term relationship at all. So try to restrain yourself and not try to test your loved one. Remember that everyone has the right to personal correspondence, personal time and calls. Therefore, do not constantly check where and with whom your beloved, try to read his SMS or to study the list of incoming and outgoing calls. Firstly, without knowing the whole picture, much can be understood wrong. In addition, when a person really loves, he does not admit the thought of treason. However, constant pressure and mistrust can push him to such an act, simply not to be constantly guilty in the incomplete actions.
Well, the last is a compromise. Be able to concede. Although you are a woman, it does not mean that only you are always right. Try to adequately assess the situation and admit your mistakes. Let your man know that you can always find a way out of any situation together.