How to choose the right lover?

Every woman wants to love and be loved. But sometimes, even married women complain that their half does not give them due attention, true love, affection, sexual satisfaction. Who tries to endure all this within himself, and who begins to think how to get a man on his side. And this article will tell you how to choose the right lover. "All, I'm tired, I need a man!", - Katya suddenly said. "I am a single woman, I have my own business, and two wonderful children, that I can not afford even a little relaxation?"

"There is no ideal in the world," Natasha sighed softly. "I have an ideal family with my spouse ... of course, if he used to visit the house more often and gave me time - I'm still a woman!".

All these ladies, worried about one problem - how to become a real woman, be next to a beloved man and rely on his support. Of course, sexual satisfaction between partners plays a very important role in the life of an active and full health of a woman, and giving up can greatly reduce self-esteem, health and quality of life.

If you want to have a lover you need to know certain rules:

1. Find a man suitable for such a relationship - is not easy. Of course, you can use cafes, restaurants, dating sites - they will help you in the search is very essential. Caution, when selecting is very necessary and in the initial stages of the relationship you need to conduct a check (do not really want to become a victim of a swindler or a maniac).

2. If you have chosen a partner - you need to specify all the nuances of relations at once, at the first meetings. Make sure that you and your lover want such a relationship, because thanks to this you can avoid a lot of problems in the future. Also, talk with your partner, the venue, how many times (month, weeks), ways of communication.

3. Find out what risks can be on your part and on your part. You can not treat not very pleasant consequences lightly, like sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancy or jealousy of men and women.

4. If you start dating, then monitor everything yourself, not relying on your partner. If you want to meet secretly, then do not look for a lover from friends - at work, in the family, in friends (there - where the relationship can compromise you or him).
5. And most importantly - a relationship with a lover should bring pleasure to you and him. Therefore, if your relationship begins, go to the stage of jealousy, a threat to your well-being, physical and mental violence, then these relationships must be stopped immediately.

Julia Sobolevskaya , specially for the site