It happens that a close friend can tell a lot more secrets than a young man or mother. She can give the keys to her apartment, you can ask to watch the pets, lend the right amount of money and even come for you to the outskirts of the city at three o'clock in the morning. What sometimes makes us doubt that female friendship exists? How to understand what intentions your friend has and will your friendship bring pain and frustration in the future? How to recognize the enemy in your friend?
The first thing that is worth remembering is that friends are not only known to get into trouble, as they say in one famous saying, but also in joy. If the girlfriend is on the horizon only when you have a problem, despite the fact that it comforts and empathizes, think - is not that what she wanted? Can it be that a girlfriend is happy when you fail? If you have a strong desire to tell a friend about disappointments, but you at the level of intuition feel that it is not worth talking about a novel or a new post, it is quite possible that your girlfriend is an energetic vampire.
Such "fake friends" badly affect our self-confidence, in every possible way hinder professional growth ("Yes you need this English!") And constantly convince you that you will not spit it. The only goal they pursue is to assert themselves at your expense. So do not listen to what people say to you.
The second - watch how your girlfriend behaves in the presence of a man, which means a lot to you. It can be a potential groom, or just your young man. Knowing about what kind of relationship between you, it will start, not concealing flirting and provoking you to a scandal. Will come to visit in a vulgar outfit, and even at all, to flirt with your man, saying that that otherwise simply does not know how to behave. Will try to do what you do not, for example, to wear a dress, if you have not removed jeans for a long time to bring pies to the house, if you forgot the way to the stove. Will listen attentively to your lover. Either she will behave like a bitch, even though she is an exemplary mistress. With such a friend, you can not relax, especially if a young person does not have sex. Do not leave her and your loved one alone for a long time and do not give in to provocations that protect your man, for example - ask others to remove construction debris after repairs, not him.
In this case, you do not necessarily finish with a message. If you take care of that it ceases to appear in your personal life - you will not invite to visit, stop calling only when the young person is absent, then you can use this kind of friendship for personal development. And in fact - why not start the oven or change your wardrobe?
Third - if you are both free and not burdened by relationships, but in companies all attention is drawn to your girlfriend, despite the fact that she always wants to put you in a negative light, not allowing you to relax and be yourself, do not doubt that you do not need such a friendship. Even if she is justified after every walk, wondering what she is accused of. Tell me what exactly touches you. If this situation repeats again, stop any communication with her and take care of your own life yourself. You just waste time. With such a friend, you will not come to anything. Pay special attention to cases that were in the past. When your friend was unprotected by your boyfriend, who behaved rudely and un-manly to you. A good friend will always help in trouble, remember? In fact, it was pleasant for her to be treated like this.
And of course, you can calculate an unfriendly girlfriend after you shared with her something intimate. If, after your talking, the information became available to a wide circle of the public, which includes your friends and acquaintances, at the same time became a reason for insults and gossips, immediately tear all the relationships that for some reason are still vassvyazyvayut.
Remember - intriguers and models are good only in the pages of books, in life it is better not to intersect with them. If your girlfriend knows how to craft feats and make fools out of people, do not think that she will not show her talent with you.