These feelings quickly fade away, and most of all in girls, due to their rapid growing up. Guys transfer it much harder. If a girl tries to reject the feelings of a young man, the latter in turn begins to threaten, promise to end suicide, or even worse, use violence against the girl. This behavior is quite natural causes fear among many of the fairer sex. Therefore, it is very important to choose tactics for the disagreement, which will be safe, but not every girl knows how to part with the guys without any problems. Here you can and even need to include psychology.
The guy takes the process of separation, initiated by the girl, by virtue of his male ego. Every member of the stronger sex, from the psychological point of view, is a ruler, creator and owner, which means that it is unacceptable for him to believe that a decision to dissolve a relationship is taken by someone, and this one is a girl. Parting with the guys can be easily and without complications, you just need to include the standard female "cunning". First, it is very important to prepare a young person for the upcoming disagreement. It's best to put pressure on what most guys do not like. More boredom, persevering requests for more attention to yourself. The best way is to often hike with your young man to visit friends. There is a great chance that a constant and excessive female environment will simply make a guy cool to you. Secondly, in 8 cases out of 10 this maneuver is successful, it is to invite the guy to get acquainted with his mother. As a rule, in the psychology of men, this causes fear, because they have associations about the imminent marriage. In the meantime, everyone has known for a long time how guys do not want to lose their freedom.
In no case do not try to break off relations, with a young man immediately offering this solution, as they say "straight to the forehead." This can create an unpredictable situation. Psychology guy, it can be different, from the use of violence in your direction, to suicidal tendencies. This is indicated by statistics. With a direct statement of your decision to end all relationships, you will not be able to get out of the situation without problems. If, however, it is time to rush to leave the guy urgently, then there are several options for how to do it without much trouble, but their success will in many ways be unpredictable. The first way suggests starting a conversation about a child, (not that you are pregnant). As a rule, in most cases, young people will immediately be triggered by a protective complex of measures to prevent further communication with you. You can leave another way, if you are completely sure that a psychologically balanced person, you can tell him, as it is, the truth. The maximum that awaits you, these are questions in the style of "why?" And "what's wrong?". Most importantly, do not tell him that you have another love in your life, even if it is true. Such recognition can a hundred times arouse a sense of anger and self-esteem, which you absolutely do not need.
"To part with a guy should be smart, with a simple smile and pleasant memories of yourself" - when Coco Chanel said. This truth is not cool to take literally. To part does not mean to hurt - this is far from a womanly step. Part with a guy and you can remain friends, the main thing is to do it right!