Many parents want to be proud of the achievements of their adult daughters or sons, for this it is necessary to think about the development of abilities in children in any area. You need to do this before he goes to first grade.
Classes in kindergarten
Most mothers and fathers hope that they will conduct an active training in the kindergarten. A child who goes to a kindergarten, really will be ready for school. Educators will teach him to engage in the team, and also personally. They purposefully develop your child, but in order to provide him with a good base, this is not enough. The thing is that in the kindergarten for children from 2 to 3 years is given half an hour, from 4 to 5 about an hour, from 5 to 6 about 2 hours. The rest of the time, children play, eat, walk around, relax.
Parents help
Some parents think that if they have no pedagogical education, then they can not help their children in any way. They are let out on their own, relying on educators and school teachers. The deed of help parents is simply necessary, for this you need to do several things:
- try to teach the child to love books, try to read a lot to him;
- occupy his spare time with useful things so that he does not have time to idle. Let him mold, cut, master with the designer, draw;
- it is often necessary to talk with him on various topics of interest to him, discuss issues with which to expand the circle of your child's interests;
- Teach the child to be assiduous so that he can concentrate on a particular case;
- always encourage him in every way, praise him for a job well done.
Determining the abilities of the child
There are cases when still studying at school, it is already obvious that the choice of the profession is in the child, but this happens in cases when parents have noticed his abilities in any sphere and have thrown all efforts at formation. For example, a child perfectly grasps foreign languages, then let him be a translator; wins at various sporting events - waiting for his success in sport, takes prizes on subject Olympiads - can become a scientist.
But there are also such parents who, having no idea how to define and develop abilities, lead their children to various schools, circles, to private teachers. As a result, the child accumulates so much information in his head that he can not digest it, physically can not cope with the tasks assigned to him, and, as a rule, does not achieve success. Parents become hurt, they spend a lot of effort, money, the results of their child no. On this basis, we must strive to determine where he will show excellent results and achieve success.
Heredity also plays an important role. A child who grew up in a family where one of the parents is an athlete is likely to also become a sportsman. In a family of musicians, there is a high probability that you also have a very high ear for music and will follow in the footsteps of your parents.
The need to visit the circles, music school and sections
You need to visit the mugs and sections, there are many things to teach your child. First of all, the ability to work in a team. To draw a house to one is not interesting, there is nobody to look, praise or criticize. I can round up friends with praise and remarks.
Visiting mugs, music school, section, children will learn to work with patience and patience. While the rest of the guys will hang around, yours will be in training or doing music, singing, etc.
In addition, the child will learn to compare their own and other people's achievements, properly evaluate them. Dad and mom touches everything that their children do: crafts, drawings. The trainer and the teacher are able to really appreciate them, they see what his successes are. Achievements will contribute to the desire for victory, the desire to become strong, courageous, intelligent.
The task of parents in time to recognize the craving of a child for any occupation, because many of them have age limits.