Classes for sex, as such, no one to teach is not necessary. Natural instincts are given to us by ourselves. The situation is slightly different if you want to master not just a "basic instinct", but want to master, as an experienced master, the art of physical contact. In this article I will tell you how to make pleasure with the help of tantric sex.
What is tantric sex? Tantra is an ancient Indian philosophical system in which sex is considered sacred. Tantric sex implies not so much physical contact, as spiritual unity of partners. During sex, partners increase the vitality and energy of each other, thanks to the sensitive perception of a man and a woman, Yin and Yang. The unity of breathing, the subtle and right touch to each other give unsurpassed pleasure from sex, and not just the realization of carnal needs.
An important aspect of tantric sexual relations is a constant sexual partner. Yes, a partner can change, but very rarely. This is important, because you need to know the tastes, habits, interests of the partner, his inner world.
In fact, tantric sexual relations are a kind of work, exercises for achieving spiritual ecstasy, and for them it is necessary to create certain conditions: a calm quiet environment, inner peace of mind, mutual understanding and coherence.
During sexual intercourse on tantra it is necessary and important to allow yourself "full emotional contact", sexual emancipation: crying, shouting, moaning, so the room should have good sound insulation. If you can not completely relax during intercourse, succumb to the influence of passion, then tantra is not for you.
The sexual act on tantra should be elongated, which requires certain training and skills. Modern men and women do little to develop their body and muscles, which is a negative moment for practicing tantric sex. On the other hand, if you decide to go to this type of sexual relationship, then you have a wonderful opportunity to train your body to achieve the highest degree of pleasure. In Tantra, the duration of sexual intercourse is from half an hour to one and a half hours, and the strength of orgasm is more pronounced than with ordinary sexual intercourse.
Between tantra and yoga, you can draw many parallels. These two systems are aimed at achieving harmony between the soul and the body, not for nothing there is such a term as "tantra yoga".
Movements in sexual intercourse in tantra yoga should be easy and unconstrained. Any tension worsens the perception of each other's partners, speeds up sexual intercourse and prevents spiritual rapprochement. Sexual intercourse should be perceived as a dance, the transition between poses should be smooth and inconspicuous, as in a good dance.
Great importance is played by working out the susceptibility of the sense organs: smell, touch, taste, hearing and vision. The ability to feel and enjoy others, to be constantly sexually aroused contributes to the activation of receptivity during sexual intercourse.
The technique of tantric sex is as follows:
- At the first stage, the partners carry out gentle, long caressing each other. Movements should be easy, unconstrained, not stimulating. This stage consists in gentle stroking each other. A woman should very carefully caress her partner, do not rush to touch the penis, so as not to provoke ejaculation. When both partners after long caresses will be ready for intercourse, then the lateral pose is taken. The beginning of the sexual act consists in placing the head of the penis in the pocket between the labia for 5-10 minutes to reduce involuntary ejaculation and to control the orgasm.
- Introduction of the phallus in the vagina, but no more than 3 cm. Deep breathing and the lack of all caresses helps to control sexual tension. In this condition, it takes 2 minutes, after which the penis is removed from the vagina - and again a break for 2 minutes while maintaining a deep breathing. After 15 minutes of such procedures, sexual intensity is greatly increased, as a result of which the partners are striving for the rapid completion of sexual intercourse. Then the man makes a few short quick shocks, tightly pressing a woman to her. The subsequent sexual encounter again lasts about 15 minutes. Penis dips are carried out for half of its length and each movement lasts at least 3 minutes. After the end of the time of such controlled movements, the partners can proceed to achieve orgasm through short, rapid and deep jerks.
- Sexual contact in tantra yoga is quite lengthy and requires the man to control and restrain ejaculation. There are two ways of deterrence. The first way: when you feel a strong sexual tension and the approach of ejaculation, you need to stop all movements in time, breathe deeply and relax the muscles of the buttocks. The second way is to completely remove the penis from the vagina and deep breathing for 2-3 minutes.
- The third, fourth and fifth sexual encounters imply the acquisition of fairly good skills. During this period, the penis can be introduced from the very beginning to half its length, and the movements last at least 3 minutes. At this stage, the "rider" pose is recommended, when the woman is on top.
- After the sixth sexual encounter, when acquired good skills in tantric sex, partners learned to restrain orgasm, you can have sex in any position.
I told you the basic principles of sexual intercourse on tantra. If you decide to look at "love" in a new way, mastering the technique of tantric sex, then you will discover a huge potential of sensual pleasure, and the routine of relationships will turn into a stormy romantic journey to a long line. And you can already make pleasure with the help of tantric sex.