When you can have sex after a cesarean section

We tell when and how it is safe to return to sexual relations after childbirth
Pregnancy, and in its result - childbirth, of course, is a very heavy burden on the female body, in particular - on the nervous system. This load is especially great (it can be said, the biggest in a woman's life!), If the birth is accompanied by such a complicated operation as a caesarean section. Of course, the relationship between loving spouses changes drastically after this event. Together with the relationship inevitable changes are subject to sex. Virtually all sensible women are interested in the question, when you can have sex? Can answer for sure that these terms are extremely individual. They depend, mainly, on the state of health, and most importantly - the desire of women. Although certain standards, of course, there are.

Often, almost all gynecologists advise you to resume sexual relations no earlier than a month and a half after this difficult operation. It is very simple to explain this. The fact is that it is after such a period of time that the female organism will more or less recover, return to its normal state. Although there are cases when advised to expect no less than eight weeks. There are also such specialists who permit the resumption of sexual relations almost immediately after the operation, if the woman so desires. Of course, common sense tells us that it is wiser to wait until the end of the bleeding, and only then begin to resume intimate relationships.

Only an individual consultation and reception of a gynecologist can help you as precisely as possible to establish a timeframe that will already allow you to have sex with complete calm and confidence, without negative consequences for the health of the female body. The doctor will take note of those factors that are very important in each individual case. All these measures will help minimize the risk that arises during the appearance of postpartum haemorrhage - the risk of infection. We think that everyone understands that the reason for such negative consequences is the very early onset of an intimate life after childbirth.

While the placenta separates from the walls of the uterus, a wound is formed at that place, which is the cause and source of bleeding. It is for this reason that too early sex, and the use of ordinary tampons, cause infectious infections of the female body. Therefore, it is strongly recommended to abstain, even a few days after the cessation of bleeding, so that it does not resume with renewed vigor.

Very often, companions of intimate relationships after cesarean section are painful sensations. Experts compare the "first time" after childbirth with the loss of virginity for the second time. It is easy to explain this: the structure of ligaments and connective tissues must first be slightly stretched, so that the sensations "at the time" were the same as before. It happens that the pain does not leave the woman for 3 months! If there are no abnormalities, and the attending physician recommends having sex - continue in the same spirit. Just be more careful and extremely careful, slow enough and choose the most comfortable positions for yourself. Soon the pain will leave you. Just have a little patience.

And the most terrible reason for putting off the "joys of life" is psychological. Often, many girls before giving birth (even the most beautiful ones) are not so sure of themselves. Then the chest is too small, then the waist is not very thin, then the extra weight is available, then cellulite. And the remaining postoperative scars are generally a disaster for them.

Lovely our girls, remember, please, always that men love you, adore you, they carry on your hands for other things! Moreover, soon the scars will be discolored and smoothed out.

Of course, if it is difficult to cope with a psychological factor only by willpower, another way out of this difficult situation is possible. Simply buy yourself a beautiful, rather expensive and slightly more closed underwear. The result will not be long in coming. And all your complexes will pass, as with white apple-trees smoke. And most importantly - you will open in a new role in front of his beloved husband.