Over time, people get used to each other and take for granted what the other partner is doing. It can not be said that the feeling of a state of comfort and stability is bad. It's bad if a man thinks that you have to cook, wash, take care and so on. Well, when it's appreciated, it's bad, when they just forget to thank and just sit on their necks.
How to make a man take care of you?
You can deal with such outrageous exploitation, but you can put up with it. Do not make a revolution, but you can delicately hint and make your man appreciate and take care of you.
Do not burden yourself with work
Women like to take on their beloved man, a hot house and a horse. They try to keep everything under control. And what do our men do? They come from work very tired and sit down to rest, and women after work prepare dinner, stroked, do with the child lessons, and still need to leave the force for sex and for themselves native.
Ask for help, because this is not a sign of weakness. Rarely, which of the men will perform their duties. You want to make him help, every day, ask you to help, because the drop is sharpening the stone.
Love yourself more
For a long time, self-sacrifice has gone out of fashion. The more you protect the man from everyday life, the more you put this life on yourself. You neglect the care of yourself, your interests, and the time that you would spend together. To begin with, let's fall in love with ourselves.
Part of the work is shifted to strong men's shoulders, we will put on beautiful sexy underwear, we will not forget about manicure, a drop of favorite perfume and mood will rise right away. He is seeking higher self-esteem and you already feel like a queen. After all, men are drawn to those women who follow themselves, are satisfied with themselves. It turns out some vicious circle. If you do not love yourself, then the man will not appreciate you and take care of you.
A bit of selfishness
It needs to be shown in order to give a little time to yourself. Start with twenty minutes daily. Ask your husband for twenty minutes to play with the child, and in the meantime you take a bath and make yourself a manicure. And in order to reach out to the spouse, use different psychological methods.
You can motivate the second half by the fact that the appearance of a woman is a reflection of how a man cares about a woman, and a woman - about him. Remind your husband that next to a well-groomed and beautiful woman is much nicer to be, than with a tortured woman who is not well-groomed. And when a man will perform the work shifted to him, sooner or later he will understand how hard it is for you, and how much you do for your family.
Play out of reach
Men are hunters, they are sometimes useful to be removed from themselves. Be a little indifferent, calm or stay longer in a crowded place, flirt with people in public. He will have a growing desire and he will hardly wait until you are alone with him.
Engage in self-esteem
Women are putting a lot of effort to raise their partner's self-esteem, while forgetting about themselves. And men do not bother much to tell a woman that she is the most-most. Sometimes compliments can be waited for years.
Imagine that you need to describe yourself. Start with the best character traits and skills, then smoothly move to the appearance. And you felt at least a princess. And you are not worse, but even better than others. Therefore, your man is lucky with you.
Remember that you are a woman
Of course, feminism is cool. But do not forget that we belong to the cunning and weak sex. Women have a bad habit - to take on all the work. But after all, a man lives next to you and you must instruct him to do housework, to hammer a nail, and not to do everything yourself. Do not carry all the bags on yourself, let the man who walks next to you do this, because he must and must take care of you. And if you do everything yourself, then you will pull all this burden on yourself.
Women themselves are to blame, that men stop taking care of them and appreciate them. It is necessary to regain the desired attention of a man, his concern, to reconsider his views on relationships and on life.