The most common misconceptions about men
1. If a man spares no money on you - he is generous
The conclusion at the root is incorrect. Most men go to large embezzlements, only to attract the woman they need. It's kind of a bait. But after a stormy night or the beginning of life together, all this can abruptly end. The trophy is conquered, so why continue the effort? Hence the women's frustrations and complaints, they say, while courting, he bought everything, gave gifts, flowers and sweets, and now it seems as if he requires a report for each of his kopecks.
Do you want to understand whether a man is generous? Then it is better to observe what his actions are in everyday life. Is he inclined to leave a tip to the waiters, does he save on purchases, in a taxi ... Can one gently ask if he supports his parents financially? If you find that your chosen one considers literally every penny, although he gives you gifts - think about it. However, you can not doubt: pretty soon you will feel this "generosity" on yourself.
And exactly the same way, if a man at the initial stage of the relationship does not hurry to spend money on you, then do not conclude that he is greedy. A man, as a rule, will want to spend money on a woman, if he really likes it. In addition, he may be afraid that he will "run into" a mercantile person, that's why he is not in a hurry to disclose his financial capabilities. Therefore, not an indicator of stinginess, if on the first date a man limited himself to a cup of coffee or an invitation to just take a walk. But if he is for dinner with empty hands or asks you for money for a new mobile - be wary.
2. If the man took the number of your phone - he is interested
Is not a fact. There are a bunch of men collecting telephone numbers of all favors. But that does not mean that he will call. Men tend to take a number just like that, let it be.
Call him yourself - and by his reaction, you will immediately understand whether he really needs. If he did not remember at all who you are, or did not make an appointment for the whole conversation - cross out his number from your memory and notebook.
3. If a man went to the house - he has serious intentions
Not necessary. He can be just polite and well-mannered. Such a person simply can not allow a woman to go home alone late at night ... It's sad that many women think about men only in terms of intimacy, accepting simple courtesy for manifesting a man's interest. From politeness, he can even go up to you for a cup of coffee, but nothing follows - only your disappointment.
4. If you have slept - you have some rights to this man
The most common female error. Even if a man has sex with you, it does not mean that he is ready to build a serious relationship with you. For most men, the very fact of sex can not have any meaning whatsoever.
Remember: sex is one thing, relationships are completely different. Relations - this is if you go somewhere together, you have some common interests, common acquaintances. If you do not bind anything, except as a bed, it's silly to claim for something more.
5. If he confesses love, then he really loves
In fact, for men, the words "I love you" do not carry anything serious. A man can say this for various reasons: more often to get a woman from intimacy or to get some other things. This phrase can also mean to you just a good attitude. And there are also men who admit to love in all sincerity, without deception, but ... constantly new women.
Misconceptions about men in sex
Women think that men in sex are predictable and understandable. They generally think of men, that they are such sexy machines, always ready to fight. That's why we women, so often make a lot of mistakes in the period of intimacy. These errors can easily cause problems in an intimate life. The reason for this is the usual misunderstanding of signals that your partner sends.
Psychologists have identified four of the most common female misconceptions in the sphere of intimacy.
1. Mans do not need caress after sex
Sexologists claim that men like caress after sex, no less than women. Simply, a man often spends much more physical effort during the sexual intercourse, rather than a woman. He sometimes just does not have enough strength for the final caresses.
2. Mans do not hurry to fulfill women's sexual desires
Most often the problem is that a man simply can not guess your thoughts. A woman usually wants a man to guess himself about the existence of her secret sexual fantasies and desires. Often a woman is simply ashamed to say so openly. But in sex, you do not need to wait for mercy from the male intuition, but it's better to let yourself know what you really want.
3. Men want sex always
This statement applies only to young people who do not have problems with work or family relationships. The rest of the male representatives of 22 and older for full-fledged sex needs certain conditions. With age, a slightly greater burden of responsibility falls on the man's shoulders, so it's not just a matter of seconds before he gets excited for him. Excitation depends on a number of factors. The presence of the same problems at work and can completely kill any desire to have sex.
4. Men can have sex without feeling any feelings for a woman
Women are so arranged that during sex in their body is the production of the hormone oxytocin, which is responsible for emotions. That's why the female half of humanity is able to experience, apart from physical arousal, also an emotional splash. In men, everything is a little different. They oxytocin is not produced at all, or it is produced very little. Therefore, if you want to get sensual contact with a partner, you need to try to extend the prelude.