Most ordinary citizens, occupying their own modest niche in society, ask themselves about their financial situation, being at a loss, why one is unlucky in life, while others, less talented and capable of always riding a horse. What is characteristic, lucky people do not make any effort, having everything in abundance from wealthy parents, or open their own business, successfully working for themselves. How offensive sometimes you become when you see a successful businessman who once, being your classmate, studied for one deuce, wrote off math from you, did not understand anything in chemistry. And now he is a businessman! And people like you, hard workers, work hard for his benefit. It is unfair, prompts pride, incredible envy and resentment.
Once when you were young you dreamed of a beautiful life, thought that everything would be different, otherwise, you will reach that beautiful life, open your business, or get a job. But in fact for this it is necessary to work hard, to study, to have a good education. That is why they sat so hard at school, at the lectures at the institute, they crammed the material before the exams, neglected rest and walks with friends, postponed their personal lives "for later" when everything was fine, and so on. Only you miscalculated a little, did not take into account one simple moment. Think, maybe someone else has identified your life for you? After all, perhaps this is not your choice, but rather the choice of your parents or the society in which you live? As a rule, this mission is entrusted to parents, taking so much care of the future of their child. In principle, this is not bad, but if you look at their actions from the other side, it turns out that people who love you and wish good, can involuntarily destroy you, yourself without knowing it.
The fact is that your parents or other people taking part in your upbringing have never been rich and even just wealthy people but, nevertheless, educating you, they gave you advice on how to behave properly. A hungry person, as you know, is not a full-time friend, but a poor man, accordingly, can not teach how to be rich! This simple truth has always been relevant at all times, and it remains so until now. For many years at school you were taught that it is necessary to study well, and then you will live well. But life is stubborn, persistently proving to all its guests that this is not so! Modern educational institutions, from school to universities, are not created at all in order to educate, teach their wards how to be free, how to earn material resources and live with dignity. Rather, on the contrary, all educational institutions are "factories" for training the labor force, and then exploiting you for your own ends. Yes, no one talks about this, but it's enough just to include logic and common sense, and everything will fall into place. Sad as it sounds, but you will never achieve the desired result, you will not be able to open your own business, become a truly free and independent person in the broadest sense of the word, following the standard attitudes, stereotypes given to you by your environment. Perhaps successful people will not even be able to explain the secret of their success, because the mechanism of this success lies in the subconscious. A successful person, not fully realizing why he is doing this, and not otherwise, is moving not in a closed circle, but in a spiral, the radius of which gradually increases, that is, there is an element of development, progress in the direction in which he moves. Unlike most humble, often decent and talented people who involuntarily follow the instructions given to them from their earliest childhood, successful people do not puzzle themselves with unnecessary restrictions and moral principles.
Do you remember what your parents gave you? Surely they were like: "In order to live well you have to work hard", "It's dangerous to be rich, they have a restless life", "Never try to stand out from others, it may not like someone", "I have been a lifetime worked at the factory, and now it's time to make money for you "," A person without education can not live well ", and so on. Of course, the parents did not want to harm you, just in the measure of their ignorance offered a model of life similar to their own, because they have no idea about other models of life. Moreover, it is extremely difficult to contradict parents, since any indentation from their recommendations leads to a violent protest. Wishing only good for their child, parents are practically imposing their worldview, not seeing any other way than the one chosen by them, exceptionally correct from their point of view.
How to be in this situation? Play only yourself, aggressively and selflessly contradicting the "good detractors", thereby stepping into the uncertainty, or still submit and accept the standard plan for life? The main thing is to understand the principle of everything that happens. The reason for all the failures is primarily laid in your thoughts and subconscious mind, limiting actions. Restricting communication with "losers", the majority in your environment, and conversely more communicating with successful people, you gradually switch your mind and subconscious mind to positive and luck. This is a rather difficult task, because you have been so long and persistently taught to be a "slave", an involuntary pawn, to be proud of the status of a working person, to work impartially for pennies, feeling false happiness from this process.
Alas, be that as it may, millionaires and businessmen all can not really be, but to live with freedom from other people's complexes and stereotypes by reason is much more pleasant!