How to overcome the computer addiction of a beloved man?

Modern man is a man who lives in the era of technological progress. Just recently, a mobile phone, a computer, the Internet were a wonder. Now every owner of new products has new opportunities: access to information in any field, a wide range of personal and business contacts. All these features are available online, instantly and reliably. However, like any phenomenon, technological progress has its drawbacks. The global web in its network daily lures a huge number of users. People have new bad habits - 24 hours of "hanging up" per day on the Internet or computer dependency (computer games, social networks, etc.).

In particular, today's computer games. The majority of gamers are men. Quite often there is a situation where a beloved man is completely involved in the game, and does not pay any attention to his mate.

Unfortunately, this situation is familiar to many women. At home, a computer appeared, and now the family boat cracked. A man ceases to be interested in his previous pursuits, does not communicate with friends, and, of course, does not pay attention to his beloved. At first, a woman can not give it much importance, hoping that the hobby of a toy will soon pass. However, addiction becomes stronger and stronger and the real life of a man ceases to interest. And then the woman has a logical question, how to overcome the computer addiction of a beloved man?

The woman starts to get nervous. She tries to talk to her husband about the fact that he has become distracted by the toy from her and from the family as a whole. The man promises that he will stop playing and really "enough" for 2-3 hours, but after a while everything starts all over again. The woman again tries to convince the beloved, but he does not react in any way. This conversation ends with a big quarrel and female tears, but the man does not really care, he also continues to sit at the computer. The woman remains either to close her eyes to the computer dependence of the man, or to deliver an ultimatum - a divorce.

However, do not despair. To overcome the dependence of your betrothed and restore the old family idyll is possible. Just be a little patient.

To begin with, you should analyze the situation and think about what you would like to achieve in your family relationships with your husband. To achieve the goal, it should be clearly formulated. But it should be noted that the goal should be real. Of course, do not count on the fact that her husband will immediately stop playing computer games and begin to pay attention to you. However, he can start spending less time behind him and more with you.

Stages of achievement of the set goal:

1. Disassemble your own behavior.

    First, remember your behavior before the computer appeared in your life together and compare it with the current behavior. Most likely, you began to behave not in the best way. Therefore, behavior is worth changing. Gather your will power into a fist and try to behave yourself calmly, as if this problem is solved, and you have achieved the goal. Smile, joke, flirt with your husband, be more relaxed and natural. Do what you like!

    2. Wedge wedge kicking.

      A man in this situation draws impressions from the computer. Therefore, he needs to provide more vivid sensations from reality. Engage in role-playing games, make him sensual massage. That is, bring something new into the familiar situation for both of you.

      You can also buy tickets to the theater, or to a movie show. After visiting the cultural institution you can visit the restaurant. You can invite friends and family friends to visit. After all, virtual communication, no matter how exciting and interesting it was, will never be compared to real human communication.

      In addition, you can buy a subscription to the gym, swimming pool, fitness club.

      Options can continue indefinitely, most importantly - your imagination. However, note that everything has limits and boundaries. Do not be obtrusive, because it will lead to the opposite effect. A man will simply rebel and even more deeply drag on the virtual world, and then eradicate his computer dependence will become even more difficult.