So, answering the question, whether a woman can make a man stronger, it is necessary to understand what exactly you mean by the concept of force. Most likely, to make a guy like that means to turn him into a person who can make his own decisions, make choices, not be afraid to answer for his actions, achieve something and never assert himself at the expense of others. But, what can a woman do in order to change a guy. How to make a man strong and real, if he is indecisive and lazy. In order to make a strong guy, you need to motivate him. In this case, he has one motivation - you. Just for the sake of a woman, a man will change. Therefore, in order to motivate a man, you need to be sure that he loves you. Although, if a guy does not love and can not love, what's the point then wasting your time and energy. But, if you are the woman with whom he wants to be, if not always, then for a very long time, then you can try to change everything. Of course, do not constantly "saw" the young man and remind him that he is a weakling who can not do anything. At least, it's not necessary to do it first. But, if the methods do not affect the man, which we will now talk about, then you can use something more cardinal.
So, what to do if a man is modest and shy, afraid to say something and ask again. First, never do anything for him. It is not necessary to show that a woman can do everything herself. You are a weak and fragile being, which must be protected and protected. Remember that with a weak man, in the case when a woman begins to show strength, she automatically programs him for inaction. After all, why do something and fight with yourself when there is a girl next to you who will decide everything herself, agree, find out and correct. Therefore, try to restrain yourself and not help in such cases, even, sometimes, to the detriment of yourself. Such a man needs to be constantly stimulated to action. Let him understand that his woman suffers from the fact that he can not decide anything on his own. If a guy loves, he will not be able to do things for a long time, which bring you different kinds of harm.
But, if the man and continues to do nothing, and you understand that the consequences of this can be almost catastrophic, start with him seriously about everything. Explain to him that, despite the love, you can not be with a man who can not stand up for you, not even for yourself. Tell me that you are a woman and do not intend to shoulder all the difficulties and decisions on your shoulders. You have to work in a team and the main role is played by a man, not a woman. Therefore, if he loves you and wants you to be together, you need to change your life positions and get rid of complexes. In turn, of course, you are always ready to help and support him in a difficult situation, but only if you see that the guy struggles with himself, and does not take everything as is and does not act.
Men are very offended when they are called weak-spirited, even if they are. Try to play it. Say that you feel too strong next to him, but you must be weak. Probably, this is not just happening and something is to blame for your young man. He disappoints you, because you fell in love with a strong man who was not. Therefore, you want him to behave in accordance with the image of a real man. Of course, he will begin to prove to you that everything is completely wrong, but, in this case, it is necessary to operate with facts and real examples. Tell the young man, in what situations he behaved incorrectly and why. Do not make hysterics and raise your voice. Be calm and cold. Do not compare it with anyone. But, sometimes you can give examples of this male behavior, focusing on the fact that you would very much like that he acted in this way.
It is believed that men should not be humiliated and talk about their weaknesses. But, sometimes it is worth doing so. Some men need someone to push them to change their character and that person can become you.
Of course, this situation is rather risky, because it may happen that your man will take everything very negatively, accuse you of not wanting to accept him as he is and break the relationship. But, nevertheless, it is worth doing this way, because it is impossible to be with the person who does not represent himself all his life. Therefore, it is better to break off relations at an earlier time than to suffer for a long time. If you see that the guy does not act or persuasion, or incentives, that he does not care how you react, and how much such situations cause you discomfort, it remains only to put the question squarely. Tell a young man that you are not happy with his behavior, and you can not be with a weakling who hides behind other people's backs. You see a number of real men who can do what he can not, but because you love him, you do not pay attention to them, for the time being. If this continues, you will have to abandon your relationship, although such a decision is not easy to make. Therefore, let him decide whether he wants to change or whether you should part better. If a guy loves you and he has the potential, he will collect the will into a fist and try to change everything. Internal strength is not always congenital. You can work it out, but only if you really want it. If the guy does not care - let him go with the world and look for a real strong man who does not need to be changed. After all, if a woman tries to change a man, it is always violence over his "I", this deprives the individuality. Do we need to break down someone who will never really be different?