Undoubtedly, I want to take care of my beloved ones. But how to find that side, when a loving man suddenly turns into a custodian and a gigolo?
To date, the number of specialists who are versed in the tricks of this case is growing exponentially. They perfectly know the women's psychology and are doing everything possible and impossible to win their attention. The primary task, which the alfonso-male adheres to, is to create an impression of yourself that the woman-goal should lose its head.
How to talk in one well-known proverb - the clothes are met, so gigolo look at the whole thing. Most often, this is a stylish hairstyle, a good perfume is an ideal style of clothing. All this, is a cocktail of compliments, impeccable attitude, good taste and aesthetics, which women like to drink so much.
Initially, Alfonso confuses the woman. He begins to give posh presents, presents bouquets of flowers, spends so much that he can show up, as if he does not feel sorry for you. However sad as it is to recognize - the cost of entertainment is already included in your future budget, which you will gladly spend on it. All this is done in order to mislead, lull vigilance and enter into trust. But we women are not easy, and we can not simply be taken!
Let's see how to calculate a cunning alfonso. So, you should be fully armed, if in the behavior of your chosen one you notice the following accents.
Often forgets the home wallet
When it comes turn to pay for purchases in the supermarket, he suddenly calls on an important matter, when the restaurant came to pay a bill, he suddenly runs to the toilet. Often lends money and forget to return them. And he wants to take a loan for your name, using different tricks.
Of course, there are different cases, but if you notice that this behavior is repeated all the time - draw conclusions.
Constantly flatter you
Alphonse will say that you are a woman of his dreams, will not question your hands and hearts and when you agree to a tempting offer, he will say that he has problems with money and a crisis at work. Perhaps he will ask you to pay the wedding. Probably will say that your money does not agree, but after a few persuasions, will agree. Often, alfonsoy are "free artists", just so many people call themselves. They will say that they will return the money immediately after they write a book or picture. And until then they look at you with piteous eyes, despite the fact that you are working on three jobs to provide for yourself.
Solves your problems with your help
With a car, a local residence permit, other documents. At the same time, he talks about his problems as tactically, that at the very time he starts a tear. Try in your turn to tell us about your problems. If he does not take action to solve them, do not hesitate, you have gigolo.
It brings to you the feelings of guilt
Allegedly for you to be grateful that he paid attention to you and agreed to live with you. Over time, a woman really begins to think that she is not at all as beautiful as she thought herself, and that an exception was made for her, having met. After this begins to uplift his chosen one, doing for him all conceivable and inconceivable things.
Often interested in your material situation
Alfonso is interested in everything: what is your property, work, what car is the car. However, if you ask him, he is unlikely to tell something about his life, although prospects may be bright. Ask him to introduce you to his friends. They will also help make an impression of him.
You spend more on it than it does on you
After the month, calculate the costs. How much has been spent on you, and how much on it? Spending on whom were more?
Another way to identify a liar is to say that your employer is delaying his salary and will have to live on his money for a couple of months. See how he sings.
He is constantly on the lookout for a new job
Constantly looking for work, calls up with employers, negotiates a meeting, but returns without results. Most likely, the only goal he pursues is to lure money out of your wallet.
And remember - Alfonso feel their victims. Usually this woman is the wet nurse. It also happens that a woman is comfortable with this situation. Oney is youth, she is the solution of problems. However, if you do not belong to this category, run away from him, as from a fire.