You begin to remember how quickly your relationship developed, how beautiful everything was. He brought you coffee in bed, gave many flowers, confessed his love. You did not even have time to look back, as he introduced you to his parents. And all this happened literally in three months of your acquaintance. Here comes the wedding, you see his loving eyes, you have a wonderful honeymoon. And you begin to understand that there is love in life at first sight.
And then comes the moment in life when you come to your senses after such a quick romance and begin to understand that the family life you imagined happy suddenly falls apart before your eyes. You start to see in your man a completely different person, learn about the betrayals and that he, it turns out, likes to drink. And now your relationship, which started so quickly, ends with a divorce. You stay without your beloved husband, and learn from friends that he tells everyone at every corner that you are a real bitch.
You do not know what to do and what is the cause of the breakdown of your relationship? Just you could not see all the obvious signs that could tell you that this man is not for you. Let us try to identify the five signs of the wrong man, and consider them separately.
The first sign is the forcing of relations.
If you notice that after two weeks of your acquaintance, your chosen one wants to introduce you to his parents, do not rejoice greatly. This does not mean that he is very much in love with you. Your man just forges relations and his task is to fill you with presents and his confessions of love. He tries to make it so that your relationship goes as far as possible and so that you do not have time to look back and see in your chosen one all its minuses. In such a fast relationship, you must come to your senses and not lose your head, because your man in the near future can bring you a lot of pain. If you notice that your chosen one is rushing things, try to talk to him about it. And if his feelings are truly real, he will slow down the pace, and if not, then this behavior, says that something is wrong in your relationship.
The second sign is the propensity to serial relationships.
All of us women do not really want to know about the past of our chosen one. We believe it is right that everything that he had before you does not matter to you. But this is completely wrong. There are so many men who had so many connections with women and their relationship ended always with a break. Such men do not like to stay alone and try to start a new relationship rather than thinking about what the reason for the breakdown of previous relations is. And here there is absolutely no guarantee that, being with you now, your relationship will not end with the same gap. You have to come to your senses in time and think about why your chosen one was so often alone. Sit with your loved one and try to talk to him heart to heart. Try to find out how much was in his life a serious relationship and what is the cause of the gap. You need to find out from him how much he feels guilty about breaking his past relationship and how he is talking about those women with whom he had a relationship. If your man is blaming women for a break and responding about them with not very good words, it means that he is a serial fan. Such men have mental problems, and they are not able to start a new relationship, and also do not know how to preserve them.
The third sign is his past.
You need to find out his whole life story with the opposite sex, and also find out about his mental health and whether he has a criminal past. To predict your future with a man in advance, you must carefully study his past for yourself. If your man was convicted of assault or violence, then believe me, such a man will never be a good husband and father. And if he once raised a hand on a woman in his life, then there is no guarantee that he will never lift it on you.
The fourth sign is stable patterns of behavior.
Very often many women think that they will be able to correct their man. They think that love can change any man. If you notice your man in his behavior, does not change at all and whatever you do, everything remains the same, you have to think whether you need him. In such men, a stable pattern of behavior and a similar type of people can not be changed.
The fifth sign is the women whom he chooses.
You need to find out what type of women he chose for relationships. If he tells you that his women were hysterical, then it says that he chooses women with low self-esteem. And even if you are not at all like that, he will try to make you a hysterical person. Because he loves women, which can be easily controlled. You must not give him that chance.
Hopefully, we've told you how to identify the five signs of the wrong man, and warned your future against mistakes that you would suffer greatly from. Be more careful in choosing the companion of your life!