Children from a test tube are a modern science achievement that helps many women become mothers. However, not all have a positive attitude towards such children. Some begin to say that the appearance of life from a test tube is contrary to God's laws, someone blames such women for feminism. The ratio of men to children from a test tube is also far from unambiguous.
In this there is nothing strange, because to such children men do not seem to have any direct relationship. But still not always the ratio of men to babies from the test tube is negative. In order to understand their attitude, it is necessary to understand what factors influence the formation of opinion.
Inferiority complex in men
Let's start with why the attitude of men can be negative. Firstly, they simply begin to feel unnecessary. After all, if the genus can continue without the participation of a man, then it seems to lose one of the basic meanings to live. Do not forget that even in ancient times the best among men was considered to be the one who could leave more offspring. He was respected, considered the leader. He was the strongest and most healthy. And if you take away from a representative of the stronger sex the need to participate in reproduction, it begins to feel defective. That's why many men are so negative about children, conceived artificially. They blame women for feminism, because they understand that they lose power, that they are no longer needed as they used to. And at the same time they do not think about the fact that it is not so important for women to conceive a child, how many it is necessary to feel a number of a defender and an assistant who can become a normal father to this child. And since these young people are getting smaller and smaller, desperate to find a normal candidate, women simply give birth to children "for themselves," since no one has abolished the maternal instinct
Negative attitudes toward artificially conceived children may appear in men who have health problems and are infertile. In this case, such an attitude causes exclusively an inferiority complex. In fact, a man hates himself, and not such children. But he can not admit this to himself and others, so he begins to blame science for his troubles. It is extremely difficult to dissuade such young people, because they need to overcome their psychological problems in order to recognize that such children are not a tragedy, but a gift from God. But while a person does not realize his mistakes, talking with him is simply useless.
Conservatism and religion
A separate category of men with a negative attitude towards children from the test tube are religious people and representatives of the older generation. They believe that such children go by their very existence against nature and God. In this case, their opinion is irrational, imposed by dogmas and postulates, which each treats as it sees fit. People of the older generation believe that in their time this was not the case, that modern men are not capable of anything, and women are completely out of hand. Unfortunately, they do not think that in their time there were the same problems with male infertility and many families remained childless.
Adequate perception
But do not assume that all men are ill to the children of the test tube. There are a large number of representatives of the stronger sex who understand that sometimes such a child can be the only opportunity to create a full-fledged family. Often these young people are educated, are interested in science. In addition, when raising a question about a child from a test tube, they think not only about their own ego, but also that his beloved woman wants to become a mother. Such men accept the concept of conceiving children from a test tube. Although, of course, lack of the opportunity to have your own child also beats by their dignity, but they try to assess the situation adequately and do not focus on this. Such men learn to take the children from the test tube as their own and eventually become good fathers for them.