But do not avoid dating with the opposite poglotolotolko only because of their fear of being deceived. First of all, it is worth remembering that even experienced liars can give out peculiar trifles. These trivialities are concluded in the simile, posture and gestures of a new acquaintance. It is worth taking note of some of the above, in order to reduce the probability of deception to a minimum.
No matter how a person, including a skilled seducing liar, either hide their lies, often they are given out "dumb gestures-markers." So, when talking, when a young person answers "yes", and while unwillingly shakes his head from side to side, which usually indicates a tantrum, this gesture may be an involuntary symbol of that he does not agree. But, however, after seeing such a gesture, not it is worth rushing to a new acquaintance with soslovami: "Deceiver, a liar, a vile liar!". It is necessary to develop a question, which, as it seemed, was not given a truthful answer, and then observe the interlocutor's commandment.
Another common "marker-liar" - when the interlocutor touches the tip of the nose, often this means evasion, smoothing out some facts, that is, a response given by a young man, he could distort a little to a better side for himself. This behavior is due to the fact that the tip of the nose is nerve endings.
In such moments it remains important not to pretend that the interlocutor, his gestures, posture and facial expressions are being "shadowed". Do not stand in the "young investigator" and interrogate your "accused." Such behavior can alert and alienate the young man and he will generally stop any conversation. It is better to support the conversation in a pleasant key, and just remember these inconsistencies, they will help to make a final conclusion about the new acquaintance.
But for example, there can be such a situation that a young man in a conversation gives out one marker, but with all the rest everything is in order. What should I do in this situation? Of course, there are other "markers-liars."
Turn away from the interlocutor. If a young man was asked a question, and he turns away before answering or answers looking at the girl, it can be said that his answer was not truthful, and that the interlocutor was not ready to answer such a question and was a little taken aback. He turned and looked at his watch or a passerby, removing the phone in his pocket, a clever liar has gained a couple of seconds for an answer. Sometimes people behave in this way, which is difficult to lie.
Pay attention to the posture of the interlocutor, if in conversation he supposes to lie, then most likely he will choose a closed pose, hands or legs can be crossed. A person can also twirl something in his hands, some do it in agitation, but only not experienced liars, they they simulate these gestures with the controllability of their interlocutor, that is you.
Interestingly, among the many people sometimes come across those who try to present lies unconstrained, as a rule, these liars will be composed, they themselves already believe in their lies, but even these experts are given out by running eyes or changing the diameter of the pupils.
All these markers will help to recognize a liar in a young man if he is so, but you should not translate these notes into a level of paranoia and in all cases look for lies, because sometimes a random encounter in the life of a girl can be a wonderful continuation of her happy life in the pleasures of a beloved, once ordinary stranger!