Why do guys badly treat their girls?

Often it happens that a man seems to be telling his lady of the heart that he loves her, but in reality she shows completely different feelings and treats her frankly badly. What is the reason for this behavior?


The guy is bad for me
Self-affirmation

Many men suffer from complexes that were pricked by them as a child. And over the years these complexes so deeply sprout vpsihiku that in order to with them at least somehow to fight, people begin to use those who are with them side by side. Most of the time, guys are self-asserting at the expense of women who love them. Looking at a lady who is ready to do anything for her man, the guy begins to feel like a king and God. And it is this feeling that he constantly lacks. Initially, such a man is satisfied only by the love of his half. But over time, he begins to demand more and more worship, as his complexes begin to grow again. It is this kind of men can calmly insult their women, threatening them with parting so on. And the ladies who, in fact, madly love their guys, turn into slaves, ready to go to anything, just not to leave. In such cases, the more a woman tries to prove her love to a man, the more he allows himself excess. In the end, whatever she says and does, he will characterize it negatively and will not allow himself to be manifested as a person. In such situations, a bad attitude is provoked by the girls themselves, even without noticing it. Men can never be given complete freedom of action and, moreover, to show that you can not live without them. Initially, it is difficult to understand whether there are such complexes in the family or whether it is a completely normal, mentally stable and adequate person. Therefore, in order to be safe, always try to not let the guys excess from the very beginning. When a man is groundlessly jealous when he constantly screams at his woman, insults and humiliates her and even, can raise his hand, then his love is just an illusion that he came up with for himself, and for others. But in fact, he simply wants to overcome his complexes, but he can not think up a normal way for this, because he uses a weak and loving person to solve his psychological problems with which it has long been necessary to go to a specialist.

Influence of the friends

Unfortunately, men often fall under the influence of the opinions of the friends, and especially their friends. If the peasants said that the girl is not particularly handsome, not smart enough, and so on, and generally, he could find himself better, the young man starts to think about it and get angry with his half. Of course, such behavior and attitudes towards women can hardly be called normal. Adequate in the relationship guys can do this in fifteen years. Here only at some such model of behavior it is saved for all life. And starting with someone's relationship, a man immediately collects a "consultation" of his friends, where they discuss the merits and demerits of the girls. And in ninety-five cases, attention is paid solely to external data. And, as you know, everyone has his own tastes. Therefore, no one can guarantee that the girl will like his friends. And if this happens, they begin to persuade a man that he is a sucker and how he could communicate with such a person. Accordingly, a guy who seriously asks friends whether he should meet a skem, is a very complex person. Listening to the children, he draws his conclusions and begins to get angry at the girl, who was not good enough for his friends. And no matter how it sounded absurd, such a man begins to try to change the girl with the help of his negative attitude, anger and irritation. But we all know that external data changes so simply. That's why such men begin to get angry and get irritated by the reason for themselves. They throw unfounded accusations at the girls, they openly call them urodks, they say that they meet only out of pity, and the lady of general is not worthy to be with someone. If you see that a man behaves in a way like this because of friends, then you need to think about whether you need a person who does not have his own opinion at all. After all, a normal person that does not go to ask the opinion of friends, he does not allow any negegative in the direction of his beloved, even in a casual conversation. And when a young man has a little of what it allows, so he also agrees, then his male honor and dignity can not even be spoken at all. This person can not be called a man, because it's the one who loves him and whom he chose himself, and now insults only because she suddenly did not like his company.


Simply can part

Another reason why men begin to be very bad about women is the banal inability to part ways. The person feels that he no longer wants to be with this woman, but instead of talking to her, begins to behave so that she is angry with him and offered to part. This is also the main sign of a weak man who can not behave with dignity and be responsible for his own acts. Even if he says that he's just a girl, it's not. A person who is not indifferent to the feelings of another will never allow himself such behavior. He always finds words to explain and will not humiliate and insult a woman in this way. If the guy is constantly annoyed, angry, calls, and at the same time can not explain why, it means he is simply trying to push the girl to make a decision about parting, so that he can stay out of the business and "go dry."

Above we talked about situations where the ladies are really not to blame for anything and the men behave in a proper way simply by relying solely on their own desires, which are completely unrelated to the behavior of women. But it also happens that the behavior of a guy becomes bad not because he is spineless and complex, but because the woman herself provokes him to do so by his own windy behavior, disrespect, and so on. Therefore, before you make your own conclusions, still think about how you behave. Perhaps this is for you, and not for him to think about his attitude to people, and especially to the second half. But if it is not so, then next to you is a simple-minded person with whom you need to break off the relationship as soon as possible.