You met him - beautiful, courageous, clever, in one word the best (at least, now you think so). And your heart is beating rapidly from the mere thought of it. You want to be as close to him as possible, to communicate with him, to walk, to live his life. But so far, unfortunately, you are not yet familiar and he can, even completely and not at all suspect about your feelings for him. Your main question in this situation, is how to start a conversation with the guy you love?
Remember, all communication begins with one clearly established scheme. This is the establishment of contact (the first phrases to start a conversation), your own presentation (remember, you will never have a second chance to make a first impression of how you will initially set yourself, so you will be perceived). Next, this is the conversation itself (topics of interest, questions - will be seen in the course of communication) and immediately the conversation should have a completed form with personal conclusions (from both sides) and plans for the further development of your communication (exchange of phone numbers, subsequent meeting). Many of us, paradoxically as it may seem, are very hesitant, to come and get to know the first with their object of adoration. Therefore, many girls even have no idea how to start a conversation with a guy you love.
It's all in the first place, because of your emotions, experiences and your maximally idealized attitude towards this person. Change your emotional attitude towards him. At the moment, this guy seems to you so exalted, unattainable and therefore you, a simple ordinary girl, are scared to come and meet. You are frightened by the emotional distance between you. In this case, it is necessary to minimize this distance in your subconscious. Put this person on a level with yourself, convince yourself that "he is the same as you". And for this you need to understate its importance, to present it differently, in other colors of your emotional perception. Once you realize this, you will undoubtedly understand that to make the first step and become acquainted with it will be much easier for you.
And this very familiarity. You overcame your fear, shame, pride and went to him first. Initially, for this case, choose a convenient time, that the guy would not hurry anywhere, did not expect anyone, but was in free flight. For example, learn as much as possible about him, his interests, places of rest. Having learned this to you and all the cards in hand. His place of rest is quite suitable for first acquaintance. How, still start the conversation itself? Do not forget the fact that guys are usually much more likely to talk to the opposite sex than girls, so it's not necessary to invent anything supernatural. Start with the standard phrase: "hello", and then you can joke or come up with something original that would interest him. It is best for a guy to ask a question, and one that can not be answered in one word. Of course, a good option, if this issue will correspond to the moment or place where everything happens. Never forget the smile - the main attribute of a girl in the seduction of the stronger sex. If it's appropriate, during the conversation, you can make the guy a couple of compliments. All people like to talk about themselves (especially guys). Take an interest in his hobbies, hobbies, tastes. Ordinary, albeit trivial, themes always help out. To make it easier for a guy to reveal himself, you can tell, for example, what kind of music you like, and then ask about his preferences. Ask how he likes to relax. What place in the city loves the most. Talk about what surrounds you, and the topics will find themselves and you will immediately tell how your conversation will start off on its own. If you are completely at a loss and do not know what to say, ask him about something out of the ordinary from everyday life (you can learn about the film or the last sensational film), from his answer find some detail and ask about it. Here's a topic for your first discussion. I think, so your conversation will pass in the sphere of his interests. Here the main thing is to show how attentive and grateful the listener is, who knows how to reckon with his opinion. By the way, it is not superfluous to recall that the conduct of a conversation is a matter for two interlocutors. So do not try to show your strength. Calling girls - listen and as little as possible to interrupt a guy.
A tremendous plus for acquaintance will be your ability to make the right first impression. It will depend on his desire to get to know you better. But then, do not forget, you're a girl and always have to keep intrigue, do not open yourself up one hundred percent. Guys love girls - puzzles and always want to know them as best as possible. By the way, by interesting him, you will be able to direct your relationship yourself as you want it yourself. The further development of your "joint" history across and directly awakens, from your first communication, after which your lover will decide for himself personally, what kind of relationship he would like with you. Therefore, put all your charm, mind, sense of humor, resourcefulness and charm, so that your chosen one is very interested in you. In addition, literally from the first dating guy immediately must know exactly (and not guess), what role in this acquaintance you give him. Of course, screaming openly about their feelings is not at all, but hinting haphazardly is quite another matter.
And finally, I want to say, you are the initiator - you and build. And try to be natural, sincere, cheerful. Be yourself with this guy you love so much. Do so that at the moment of dating a guy with you feel very comfortable and cozy. Show yourself as best you can, and you will undoubtedly get a guy you love.