This is a difficult moment in the life of each of us. After parting, we are tormented by loneliness, fears that we will not meet our love and will not be happy.
And why is this happening? Because a person can not live without the feeling that he is loved, and in his heart, too, love lives. Love is a wonderful feeling, pushing each of us to exploits. Love gives wings and a sense of happiness. And your love is gone, you are depressed, trying to understand why this happened and what to do next?
In fact, the reason for the breakdown of relations is the lack of mutual understanding. And, all the rest - lack of money, "sex is not the same" - these are just side effects. When there is no understanding between partners, they will never find a common language and will not have the opportunity to build strong and lasting relationships.
Therefore, when you meet a new love, analyze and try to understand that in your past relationships "it was not so" and try to avoid similar problems in today's relationship. The so-called "work on mistakes" will help you prevent future mistakes, save you from problems and loneliness.
Everyone dreams of a family. Every time we meet a person, we represent him as our spouse. We rush, as in a whirlpool with a head in a new relationship. And, if before they did not understand the previous mistakes, then we run across the same rake. Often, it's too late to remember that a relationship is a hard and painstaking work.
How to start a new relationship?
Accept the world and the people around you as they are - albeit not ideal, but your life is thereby very easy. Be patient and do not try to change your chosen one. This is not a grateful occupation, there will be no happiness for you, from this meaningless occupation.
Take your humor to the actions of your man. No one is immune from making mistakes, just like you. And only the strongest people can look at life with a smile and a bit of irony. It's difficult, but it's worth it to learn.
Do not expect that your man will jump in front of you and try to please all your demands and desires. Your partner is also a person, with his own ideas about life. He is not your slave, and should not fulfill all your desires, like a trained cat.
In order to start a new relationship and make them happier than the former, take the whole world as it is; Do not be selfish, no one owes you anything. Remember that the more you give, the more you get in return.
Looking for alternative ways to solve the conflict. Be more flexible. Love and pride are things that are not compatible. Agree with your partner, always discuss the problem and try to compromise.
Do not criticize and try to look only for positive qualities in your man. Condemning a person, you thereby destroy his sincere desire, to be the best for you.
Every experience is priceless, and as they say: "what does not kill us makes us stronger." And yet, there is an opinion that starting a new relationship, a person learn from old mistakes, become more experienced and more tolerant. Having survived parting, a man no longer tries to prove to his new partner his superiority. And trying to live in harmony and just love, and try to give happiness to another person.