Every woman, even if irregularly, but at least once a week should raise on her feet not only her husband, but the whole house. Perhaps, the popular rumor of law and a woman should be able to roll up 3 things: a jar, eyes and hysterics. But is there an explanation for this purely feminine skill. After all, you can close cans with conservation, and men. Rolling eyes, can and the child, playing with his parents. But to roll up tantrums is our prerogative, female. Who, if not a woman should be able to "completely take down the man's logic." And besides, accompany it all with screams and throw everything on the floor to the hands.
What is hysterics?
Every girl should be able to attract attention in any way. Therefore, the appearance, and the correct ability to "submit" themselves, always talk about the women's desire to attract special attention to their person. Is hysterics one of these ways?
So, hysteria is a special behavior of a person, by means of which, he tries to attract special attention to his personality. But hysteria, in the ordinary everyday understanding, is a special property of character and is not at all an object for studying in psychiatry to abolish such concepts as psychosis, hysterical psychopathy and nervous hysterical. The hysteria itself can manifest itself in two cases: the congenital weakness of the cerebral cortex because of which there is no proper control over the very behavior of the person, and the second case is the improper upbringing of the child. Most often, those children who were pets in the family suffer from hysteria.
Hysterics can be of two kinds - loud and quiet. With loud hysterics, a person is able to cry, scream, beat dishes and do other violent things. With silent hysteria, it is natural for a person to show their actions imperceptibly and thereby achieve the same result as with a loud hysterics. Typically, a woman with silent hysteria is silent, and with a reproachful look at the man, crushing his conscience, or just become locked in themselves, closing themselves from the outside world.
The main goal of this behavior is the desire to be in the center of attention. Usually such a state lasts until all those who surround a person in hysterics notice him and begin to calm him and offer their "helping hand" or beg for forgiveness.
The occasion for hysteria .
Sometimes, from the outside, it may seem that people prone to hysterics too clearly react to all the vicissitudes of fate. For example, a normal person is unlikely to be hysterical about the fact that he did not manage to buy a favorite trinket.
In fact, to roll up a tantrum, the motive is not needed as such. This is just an excuse for which you can catch on and give out for the main reason for the hysteria. In a word, people prone to hysterics, do not pay much attention to the occasion. The main thing is to remind them about themselves. So, hysterics is the ability to be able to demonstrate those feelings that are not.
Recognize the tantrum .
Of course, all cries and tears should not be taken as a hysterics. After all, each of us has his own temper and his emotions, so he can easily take offense, or experience for some reason showing the same "symptoms" as in hysterics. In this case, it is just necessary to be able to analyze the situation and the person himself that is before us. Only because of this we can identify "out of the crowd" of our environment a hysterical type of person.
True hysterics are inherent in a number of individual characteristics. Of course, these features can have relation to ordinary people, but only at hysterics they immediately fall into the field of vision and cut a hearing.
Hysterics, as a rule, should always behave demonstratively and try, in order, then it does not become, to be in the very center of attention. And to ensure that her name was heard by the surrounding people. By the way, such people are also easily recognizable in appearance. As a rule, they dress very unusual and colorful. Plus, they prefer to wear a huge amount of voluminous and noticeable ornaments. But their laughter and timbre of voice is always loud, and gestures are filled with a theatrical game.
People who tend to roll up a tantrum are not very ardent. They live by false feelings and play their special role in society (friend, loved one, business partner). In fact, they do not need it at all. After all, they have absolutely different goals in life. They just cry for any reason, trying to show how they are concerned about everything and everything that is around.
All hysterics are divided into two types. The first type of such people is able to constantly complain and begrudge, and the second type is characterized by constant boasting and the PR itself.
In addition to all the hysterics are very emotional and sensitive to the feelings of other people. They penetrate the soul of another person very deeply and just as easily manipulate it. In their personal lives, such women want to see kind and complaisant men next to them, to constantly awaken their guilt.
What should I do with people who are hysterical?
If a person is intelligent, he will certainly try to curb himself and direct his energy to a completely different channel (sport, work, family). Achieving tops in these areas, a person can easily achieve and attention from others.
If you are faced with a person prone to hysterics, just try not to encourage him and not "dance to his tune." Even if there are one broken dishes around, and tears simply flow from the eyes of this person. For a moment, just imagine that you are in the theater. Only when, hysterics pass, try to talk with this person and prove to her that you can achieve the desired in another way.
And lastly, a woman should apply to a psychotherapist if she notices frequent hysterics and mood disturbances. A specialist must help to overcome this ailment. Good luck and less hysterics in life!