They think they know us
Numerous sites on psychology, and ordinary women's magazines notify the men about what we really are. And this information we give ourselves. Why? So that men know what to do with us. It's like an instruction on how to use it. Well, you see, we do not miss the articles with the piquant names "What do men love in sex?", "How to bring it to the registry office?" Or "Why does it change?". Men are no exception, they also pay attention to similar texts only about us. And after reading the next masterpiece on "How to take care of a woman?" They begin to pretend to be a super-macho. It's ridiculous to watch how poor they are, using their methods on us, naively assuming that they have unraveled our code and are now omnipotent.
So, let's look at the basic masculine mistakes in understanding us.
All-women want one thing - get married
And here not! Every girl is serious about marriage, which means that she also applies to the choice of a partner. Yes, when the young lady was determined by her life priorities and realized that she was ripe for marriage, she begins to look at any partner as a potential husband, but only because she is concerned about stability and serious relationships, which are much more important than the stamp in the passport. Do not be afraid that tomorrow morning she will drag you to the registering of married people, perhaps you will not even pass a casting for the role of her husband.
Women are squanderers who spend a lot of money on unnecessary things
First, there are no "unnecessary things". Any purchase brings the woman satisfaction, whether it's a functional set of trembles or a plain curtain in the kitchen. Men are more practical in their acquisitions, in the majority they buy a new thing in exchange for the old, we prefer to have the right to choose. That's why the fifth pair of shoes helps the girl to feel special. Our "want" turns into "must have" and the best to argue with us at such moments. Although try to turn to common sense is still worth it, but not in a rude form. Tell me that in those very suede shoes and in her blue dress, your lady looks much sexier than in these terrifying "shackles" on a fifteen centimeter hairpin.
Washing, cleaning, cooking - the woman's destiny
Excuse me, is this where it's spelled out? If the girl and deigned to wake you up in the morning with a coffee aroma and at the same time stroked your shirt to work, you went not only vigorous, but uneasy, it does not mean that it was driven by a sense of duty. It is the women's tactics that show their concern. And, believe me, not every man was so benign. So instead of picking up your nose and taking it for granted, praise your hostess and thank her for that gesture.
A beautiful woman can not be smart
Well, hello, come! It turns out that now every beautiful woman should have a certificate with her, confirming that her IQ is higher than that of a monkey? This mistake also concerns the expression "blondes - fools". Understand, finally, that this stereotype has outlived itself. A beautiful woman may well be smarter than you, however, her wisdom will not let her show it, because a man should be a leader, he must surpass his mate in strength and in his mind, so we, the beauties, have to hide their abilities by using a foolish little fool.
Female chatters
What do you understand? Yes, in the shower we are all gossips (and now the attention!) And gossip. Yes, yes, men like ours like to be in the course of events. And they'll tell the best friend about the latest news. Just men operate with facts, and women supplement them with their sensations. But female gossip is manifested only in cases where other important affairs in the fair sex does not. But when a decent candidate appears on the horizon, telephone conversations about the "new Natasha's shoes" and "Mashkin's husband-alcoholics" fade into the background, because she needs to create her own gossip about herself, the cause of which can become exactly.
Oh my God, they really know us
Let's face it, we live side by side with men for many millennia, and this time should have been enough to learn something else. And there is nothing wrong with that. Therefore, once again complaining to her friend: "He does not understand me," think carefully, but does not really understand. Perhaps your man knows more about you than you think.
Our habits
In order to really know a person, you need to look at it, get used to it and observe it, which, in fact, happens in the process of acquaintance. We give only verbally information about the seben, so do not be surprised when in the morning two cups of sugar appear in your cup, and the favorite cake flaunts on a saucer, which you did not speak about aloud. And all because your man is observant. And let him forget about the date of your first kiss, it happens once a year, but he shows his attentiveness in small things every day.
Mr. Freud told about everything
Each person for the time being tries to seem better than he really is. But even the deepest vices sooner or later come out, and the true face opens. So an intelegent girl from a good family can quite well be a lover of BDSM, and an avid Klabersha is an excellent culinary idol of Pushkin's works. Of course, there are men who can not see further than the nose, but there are those who look at the girl a couple of times, read it as an open book. In each of us, there is a psychologist who is able to analyze not only obvious behavior, but also hidden. This means that they speak not so much of the actions that we do, as much as what we do. And men have learned to add two plus two: your gaze, gesture, facial expressions have long told about you, and much more eloquently than your speech.
Men are educated by women
Do not forget that as if the man did not boast of his independence and self-education, the main concepts of life, relationships and women were put in by his mother. It was her example that showed what a real duma should be. And this image will pursue him, dictating what qualities his wife must have. How many times did the girls hear from their boys about the fact that his mother prepares tasty borscht more delicious, removes more often, buttons the sewn not so ... But the mother is also the main sample of femininity, tenderness, beauty and kladezeminformation. After all, who, no matter how she tells her son, why Natasha from 7-B does not look at him, why first-year student Olenka meets with a more successful guy, why does not Daria Sergeevna from the accounting department agree on seeing him. Yes, and it happens! And this does not at all mean that your faithful is a mommy's son. It is possible because of her upbringing next to you, now the ideal man. Watching his mother build relations with the chaff, how to get out of difficult situations, how to solve problems and staunchly endure adversity, how he cares about his loved ones, the future man learns to understand and understand women. So be prepared that in "declassifying" you, a man has acquired a strong ally.
And finally ...
Dear ladies! Be open and understandable. Maybe men and lyubyaetzgadyvat rebuses and screaming at all corners that they are looking for a mysterious and mysterious, but they are drawn to those who are not trying to hide from them their own essence, who can safely declare themselves and not afraid to be themselves. And there are still a lot of secrets that we do not necessarily need to know about the strong half of humanity.