Everyone knows that men in their own way see everything. For example, when a woman simply complains about her failed hard working day, the man is not there to listen in silence, starts to give efficient suggestions as he thinks, which are not very appropriate. Or vice versa, when we try to help women, we suggest that we try to make a man better. They perceive this differently, they start to panic, and they panic because they see in their hints their absurdity and weakness, they think that they are considered weak and unstable with nothing they can not. And if a man brings a woman closer, then does it simply remove the game or the result of a misunderstanding between the two sides? This is worth considering.
Often, if a man brings a woman closer, then it is simply a consequence of his indecisive nature. In the common people this is called and wants and is pricked. Having reached a certain level or stage in the relationship, instead of going to something more serious, sustainable, for example, living together, or living separately from the parents, the man simply drifts. A man is afraid to take any responsibility for actions and actions, therefore includes the regime of a little boy who simply escapes from danger, and when everything is settled, he returns again. If you have such a case, then it is worthwhile to figure out why a man brings you closer, then pushes it away. After understanding and finding the problem, find what scares your choice, try to be more loyal to your man, do not create for him moments of panic, then the man will not approach, and to alienate you, he will always be there.
It happens that a man is determined, always knows what he needs. But then suddenly behaves unexpectedly as something not natural to his nature. If a man then brings a woman closer, then it's worth thinking about why this is all he does. Most likely such a man is just a player and for him everything that happens in his life is just a game. It is more likely that this time he started a game, a game over your feelings. Men like little children, they love that they always have something of interest, they love games and with age these toys get higher and higher prices. If a man then brings a woman closer, then most likely he became bored, relations with a woman can be seen to a one-sided point, there are no new reversals of events. Therefore, the man begins his game. He begins to interest the woman as a result at the right moment disappears, as if already shifting to her the role of someone who will develop relationships, do something new. After the period of separation, a man often appears again and brings his woman closer to him, as if he gives her to understand that she received what she wanted, for what she fought for. This behavior of a man can happen one-time, or if it is not enough for him, he will again bring the woman closer and again distances her. Until he plays enough with her feelings, it's not important, how much is the result of all this, but how much is the process.
It's clear that each pair has different life situations and relationships. Each pair of men and women have different events, and finding analogs is very difficult. Women often approaching a man, and then, by alienating him from themselves, simply play the role of a bitch, which can not be overlooked and not appreciated. When a woman is in an established relationship, such an act is regarded as simply attracting a man's attention to himself, because women love attention to their person, they love when they are admired. If attention is not enough, a woman will do everything to fill this void and get the necessary norm of attention. If a man then brings a woman that distances himself in an established relationship, too, he does not just do it. Women begin to wonder when in ideal family relationships a man begins, then to bring a woman closer, why he does it and what is the reason for it. Do not worry about this, because it is done to strengthen the union. Moving away from the woman, the man has time to miss her, to miss her warmth, and approaching, he replenishes all that he so lacked. Approaching the woman again to her, the man gives them the opportunity to become even closer. This fills their relationship with new emotions and experiences.
To properly understand the actions of a man, you need to first understand the type of man, the level of your relationship, in order to clearly understand why a man makes such permutations in the relationship, which he is trying to achieve. If a man starts acting like this, it's worth starting to wonder what's wrong, to find an obvious reason. In any case, the relationship is always worth making a novelty, surprising each other with something pleasant. It's all worth doing so that such a distance does not end with a sad ending without coming.