"Is abortion dangerous in the third month of pregnancy?" - the theme of our today's article.
In the life of every woman, there is a moment when she finds herself pregnant. The joy of the upcoming motherhood embraces, alas, not all. There are fussy thoughts: what to do now? As it is not on time! How could this happen?! The apartment is small or even detachable, I just got a job, after the older one I just started to come to myself ... A whole bunch of such thoughts is twisting in my head. And there are advisers: do an abortion, before it's too late. Why is it not too late? To ensure that he did not grow up and did not let you feel how cool it is being pushed by a little heel?
There is no time ideal for the birth of children. You can always find a thousand reasons to consider a child unnecessary.
What is the danger of abortion? The fact that a woman violates the main commandment - do not kill! At whatever time this is not done: in the second week or 3 months of pregnancy - this is the killing of the baby - the difference is only in its growth and development. Kill a defenseless baby - what can be worse?
For the woman's body there are other unpleasant consequences:
- In 20% of women after abortion, gynecological diseases develop;
- in 12% of women after this, the menstrual cycle may be disturbed for a long period, and even bleeding may be;
- this is a very serious psychological stress;
- possible disruption of the work of the nervous and endocrine systems, the resistance of the organism is significantly reduced;
- complications of varying severity are possible;
- at a subconscious level, a woman perceives abortion as violence against her body.
And no matter how cruel it may sound - the psychological consequences will remain for life. Most women regret it, but it can not be remedied. There is even a diagnosis - "postabortion depression". Most postabortion depression is experienced by women in middle age, especially if the pregnancy was the first. Young girls experience this state more easily, because they are sure that there is a long life ahead and you can do a lot. More severe depression after abortion occurs in women who celebrated the thirtieth birthday, especially from low-income families.
After abortion, depression can last for years and is often accompanied by fear of loss of genital function (naturally in women who have gynecological diseases, unstable hormonal background).
Women who have a child from another marriage in a new union are experiencing an abortion is not any easier than those who have not yet become a mother.
Heavy stone on the soul will hang ill-fated abortion. Relations with her husband are often worse, even if initially he initiated abortion. Children born before or after the abortion, too, suffer from diseases and mental disorders. So why create such problems for yourself?
Someone can argue: the birth of a child also creates problems. Lack of money, lack of normal housing - it's all possible to solve and the kid will be very stimulating in achieving the goals. The woman experiences incomparable feelings when she takes her crumb in her arms, feeds, looks into his eyes. When a woman is given a chance to be a mother, they need to use, because it is not given to everyone.
If there are no feelings for the child, what is under the heart, the best way is to give birth to the child and leave it in the maternity home, giving up parental rights. Adoption of babies in many cities of the queue, so it will be easy for him to find loving parents. And the body of the biomaterial will not be "knocked down" by abortion and on the soul there will be no sin of murder.