It is never too late to fundamentally solve the issue of breaking relations, but this is the worst case scenario. What caused this unnatural behavior? Just do not be sulky or silent. It's not up to you to decide anything. Do you think to get mad and calm down? It's not like that at all. Try to gently and unobtrusively figure it out. If something goes wrong at work, cheer up the words that it's all temporary. Can it have a midlife crisis? Do it so that he understands that you fully support him, that you are his partner and companion, that together you will cope with all the problems.
If there is a situation when the spouse has sat down on your neck, you, like a bee and work and lead the entire household, but everything is not so and everything is not so, is it worth to suffer rudeness from her husband? If he not only does not work, he also drinks, God forbid, invites you into the house of dubious friends. Do you need such a freeloader? Most likely, you, having calmed down a bit, decide that it is better than such without any husband at all. Think - who is better? You are constantly aggrieved, offended by insults, if there are children, they suffer even more in such an environment. It turns out that it is better for your husband. Start, finally respect yourself! You and your children are created in order to live happily! Drive him away and in no case do not regret. When he, though verbally, mocks you, he does not pity you and does not respect you. Remember that you deserve the best!
To suffer rudeness of the husband in no event it is impossible. You, first of all, start to dig into yourself, trying to find faults both in yourself and in communication with him, and you yourself impose complexes. Complexes is uncertainty. Your husband, seeing that you have begun to become isolated in yourself, will feel victory. This will make him even more excited, and he will be sure that he is doing the right thing. Never cry with him, even if you can not hold back emotions. In no case do not involve in solving the problems of your girlfriends, as well as parents, both your own and your husband. With their advice, they will further complicate your relationship.
It is better to live peacefully than tolerate rudeness. Maybe his irritation is caused by the fact that there are a lot of people in your house, and he simply can not relax, relax. To admit to himself in this he can not. If you live in the same apartment with your parents, at least temporarily remove the apartment. The feeling of the constant presence of "strange ears" will pass and everything will be normal in your relations. Probably, you have not rested together for a long time, did not retire. The change of habitual situation helps to look at each other differently, casts a romance.
Maybe your husband was making grandiose plans, but they suddenly collapsed, for unclear reasons, this undermined his authority, and the thought of failure does not give rest. Talk, calm, inspire him with confidence that next time everything will turn out.
Sometimes boorishness of a spouse can be caused by your behavior, attitude towards him. It can irritate your obsession, gossip, which he does not want to hear. Your unwillingness to give in to him, when on one channel goes the series, and on another - direct inclusion on football. Of course, one does not always have to indulge the spouses' whims, but a joint life is impossible without mutual respect and mutual understanding. It is necessary to remove the tension that has arisen in relations at once, otherwise mutual reproaches will grow into mutual insults, and there will not be a divorce there either. Make it clear to your husband that he offends you with his attitude, because you love him, and if you did not love, you would not care.