Rule 1.
Speak up to the end.
Many women for some reason believe that men should understand them from a half-word and guess about what they are so expressively silent. Sometimes important information that a loved one should know is hidden not from malicious intent, but from distraction. Some things we take for granted and do not talk about them out loud. And absolutely in vain!
If you do not want a wall of insinuations and insults to grow between you, say everything to the end. It is better to tell a man the truth than to leave him alone with conjectures that can lead him far from the truth.
If you go somewhere with friends, and the man stays at home, do not be too lazy to warn him, in what company, where and how long you go. This is for you a hypothetical Yuri - just a classmate, and for your man he can become a rival if you do not talk something.
Rule 2.
Know the measure of communication.
You probably already know that men do not have such a great need for communication, like women. Of course. there are chatterboxes, but there are very few of them. The average man is very reserved both in words and in expressing emotions. Therefore, it would be a big mistake to try to talk a man if he is not attuned to communication.
This is especially important if the man is busy solving some other serious problem. So they are arranged that they can do only one thing at a time. Therefore - or a new shelf, or heart-to-heart talks.
If you suddenly need to talk, ask if your second half has more important things to do. Speak a topic that you would like to talk to, since men do not like empty chatter. Sometimes he can be worn with you about anything and everything, but he is unlikely to like it if such conversations become the basis of your communication.
Try to choose a time when you are both calm, not busy and ready for conversation, especially if it is not a normal discussion of the plans for the weekend.
Rule 3.
The beginning for the peace.
Even if you want to tell a man something not very pleasant, do not start a conversation with bad news. Otherwise, he will be pre-configured negatively, and you will not get any advice, no constructive help, or the reaction that you counted on. Therefore, before rushing to the cute with a cry of "everything is bad!", Think whether there is any bright moment in your not too pleasant news, and start with it.
Rule 4.
Mindflow.
If you are a fan of long monologues, then know that not everyone, even a loving man, will be able to listen carefully to you. Minor details and details are simply not interesting to him. If you want to tell a man something important and count on his attention, speak on the merits, and keep the details for your girlfriends.
If the story does not fit into a couple of minutes, interleave the speech with questions. Let your beloved participate in communication, otherwise everything that you wanted to convey will sweep past his ears.
Rule 5.
Limits of the permissible.
For some reason, it often happens that the longer people together, the more they allow for each other. Pleasant rapprochement is necessary, but constant criticism, accusations, striving at any cost to cut down the truth-womb does not always bring good results. Be silent about what you were silent about when you first started dating. Remember, it did not matter to you that he wore this awful sweater with spools, most importantly, that you were together. Perhaps you should not become more picky now, because nothing has changed in the main thing - you are together. Without trifles.
Try to listen to your heart, but do not forget about the mind. If you want your couple to be strong, and the relationship long, remember the old wise rule: do to others as you want them to do to you. Perhaps, not a single modern one works better than it.