Is the virtual romance dangerous?

Nowadays, under the notion of "virtual romance" is most often meant virtual sex. And the thing is that with the development of modern Internet technologies people are lazy, do not want to show signs of attention in real life, care for each other and give gifts to the person they liked, and in general take responsibility for the love relationship. It's easier to say that for today many people do not need anything from the above. But the virtual novel itself, according to users of Internet resources, does not oblige itself by itself, and no responsibility for a partner is needed. In a word, you can start such novels when you want, with whom you want and in unlimited quantities. But anyway, even in a virtual world a person can be endangered. Therefore, it would not be superfluous to ask whether the virtual novel is dangerous and to understand for itself that such Internet novels are connected not only with the risk of simply getting into an absurd situation, but also with an annoying probability of harming their psychological state and mind. Remember that any impudent and ill-considered interference in personal life on the sites for dating and communication can sometimes leave an indelible mark on the soul of the "victim" of the participant in such a novel.

Danger of relations through the Internet.

As we said above, often a novel through a global network carries a sexual meaning. And what is most interesting, the number of people who are supporters of such "relations at a distance" every year becomes more and more. In a word, the number of virtual novels grows with a geometric progression, and at the same time, people of different age categories, status, and so on can participate in these relations. All of them are firmly confident in the convenience of such connections, they say, why go somewhere, look or wait? And such novels are completely confederal and do not require superfluous echoes. There are only two who are connected by a computer monitor and the World Wide Web. By the way, and no one will know about virtual infidelities, even if you have a real life companion. What you do not have a weighty indicator with a head to go into such an unbidden "love adventure"? Well, but about whether virtual novels are still dangerous, very few people thought about it. And what not to say, but such an innocuous, at first glance, flirtation or romance can bear in itself and negative consequences.

Despite all the simplicity of virtual relationships, psychologists say that it is a virtual novel (including virtual sex) that is not so harmless as many of us think. And even more, it is dangerous to humans. Especially such a danger can very seriously hurt people with unstable psyche, who can not arrange a personal life and who are strongly attached to their virtual partner. In this case, the outcome can carry a variety of mental disorders, up to the development of obsession and even schizophrenia.

According to all the same psychologists, dependence on a virtual novel is often no less dangerous than, for example, gambling, shopaholism, workaholism, smoking and so on. By the way, this internet addiction is very difficult to get rid of.

Loss of communication skills .

If a person who does not have a permanent partner in real life, prefers virtual relationships, this does not mean that such a flirtation is not dangerous for him. Sometimes such a novel can become a stumbling block to the creation of real relationships. First of all, this is due to the fact that a virtual partner often appears to his interlocutor as an ideal. That's why a person begins to believe in the uniqueness of who is "on the other side of the monitor" and does not want to change anything at all. In addition, if a girl or boy is constantly "hanging" on the network, their chances of finding a real partner are significantly reduced. And the skill of communicating with people "in the living" is significantly lost.

Virtual scammers .

A novel in the network is also dangerous because a person who is looking for a virtual partner risks contacting someone who pretends to be someone else. For example, a man who is completely unpleasant to you and whom you know can easily create a new account and appear before you a completely different and promising person. Accordingly, you are led to such a deception, but sooner or later you figure out the whole truth. Well, of course, that you can stop communicating with this person, but the broken state of mind does not go right away.

Here it is possible to refer also so-called marriage swindlers. But this, of course, in the event that you are counting on the fact that your virtual romance will have a continuation in real life. The scheme of work of such scams is very simple and has its own templates: a man who is pleasant in communication attracts several ladies, bewitching them with personal messages, for example, in ICQ, gaining their full confidence. After a while, the Internet romance, skillfully tied to them, turns into a proposal to continue communicating in real life. In this case, nothing can be alarming, because your romance has lasted for some time, so why not get to know each other closer? A charming man, meanwhile, travels through the cities, visiting his virtual girlfriends and taking with them not only their hearts, but also money.

Skillful and cunning plan .

A virtual novel is dangerous in the opposite case for men. For example, a man gets acquainted with a woman, thanks to her skillful communication, becomes attached to her, eventually their relationship becomes an Internet romance and virtual sex and love. But when it comes to a real meeting, a woman agrees to everything, only for a fee. Accordingly, the man becomes its sponsor because of the fact that at the subconscious level is already dependent on the lady.

By the way, here you can also include virtual relationships with lovers of a variety of sexual and psychological "experiments." Such virtual partners are quite consciously selected through the Internet for themselves "victim" and cause her a psychological trauma, which is much more dangerous than Internet scams. So remember, before you start such a novel, think it over and check your new virtual partner in every possible way.

But, of course, not all Internet novels carry a lamentable outcome, because each person has his secret desires and fantasies, which he can realize only in the virtual world and, through this, get the desired relaxation. The main thing is to be attentive and to know well the person with whom you communicate!