What to say to the girl on the first date?

What to say to the girl on the first date? Such a difficult question has always been very exciting and continues to worry men of all ages and nationalities, evoking different scales of feelings - from perplexity to a feeling of inferiority. On this question, which is so urgent for all men, it is rather difficult to find the optimal answer or method, since all women are very different, which is very accurately sung in one popular but silly song.

I want to say at once that in the world there is still no single method or any universal way of communicating with women, because each woman is unique in her own way and has a bright personality, which she tries to show in conversation, at a meeting, to surprise or surprise his interlocutor. With an unfamiliar, but like a woman, a man is very difficult to find a common topic for conversation or interests that would at least slightly coincide with his own interests. Even the hottest fan of men's sports, football, for example, never confesses to a man on the first date about such interest (unless of course she was not a man in the past!). For all women without exception, in a conversation with a man it is very important to show off a feminine, seductive, erudite person, but this desire does not always succeed, because it is difficult to know each other's interests and to know the desire to communicate about a certain subject.

Men, in turn, are also limited in the topics of conversations with an unfamiliar woman, as they know for sure that one in hundreds of women are interested in such topics as bodybuilding, the latest models of computer or specialized equipment, machines, and in most cases just hate political Topics. Themes of work and personal relationships are also taboo for discussion on the first date, since the meeting was not intended for trivial crying in the vest or discussion of the latest gossip, but for communication, through which one can learn more about each other.

It all comes down to one - a banal talk about the weather, but it will already mean that the woman is not interesting as an interlocutor and gives reason for a man to be accused of rejecting the presence of the mind of a female.

If a date is planned for a visit to a theater or a movie, then there may be many topics for developing a conversation about your favorite actors, films and directors. By the way, going to any cultural event will help a man learn more about the interests of women in the most casual way and evaluate her ability to conduct conversation and knowledge of the topic. If you plan to visit a theater, a concert or just walk along the street, it's worth refreshing the works of great classics of poetry in memory - this is the best way to surprise a girl and make a pleasant surprise, which, perhaps, will be remembered with great warmth for many years, regardless of the further development of relations . Knowledge of poetry, even if known, and already podnadoevshih, will be evaluated in the most positive way.

Finally, it should be said that the subject of conversations, compliments and replicas should not be prepared in advance, since in such prepared speeches, falseness and insincerity can be heard. Improvisation, albeit a bit awkward, will be much more fun and sincere than any "home" piece. And the most important rule for a first date is never to get upset if things did not turn out the way you wanted, because the girls are the most unpredictable and changeable creatures of nature whose actions do not succumb to any logic and analysis! Wish you luck!