There are times when you have finally decided for yourself to put in a point, but your lover decided to replay the situation and turn this point into a big and fat comma or ellipsis. As a rule, a man's desire to make peace can be easily "read" about his suddenly-issued calls, questions about his personal life, new acquaintances, simple and sometimes painfully "empty" letters or messages on the net. These all actions directly indicate that the lover wants to get rid of the prefix "ex" and show that you care about him.
As a rule, the reason for his activity may be a desire to cause you mental suffering, not having to make a new relationship or he really wants to make up. Therefore, before making a final decision, it is necessary to find out which of these two reasons is led by your ex-lover.
Reconciliation with all the ensuing
The fact that the lover wants reconciliation, in the first place, says that he was able to realize and is trying in every possible way to correct mistakes that have become the cause of your parting. Also in this situation, the main thing is that he not only showed interest, but also tried to become useful. It is only here that it is worth revealing the fact, is not the basis of his activity a banal sense of politeness. In other words, you ask him for help, his response is far from an opportunity for reconciliation. Well, if you notice that your former lover has completely changed and he tries to behave in every possible way so that you like it, exquisitely cares, pleasantly surprises, you can be sure that the man realized how much you are dear to him.
If you are absolutely sure that the lover wants a renewal of the relationship, recognizing that he was not right, you have to make a decision. Think about whether you are ready to forgive him and re-enter into your heart, renewing your relationship. If yes, do not take a long time. Talk to him seriously, that not only will give the man a chance, but also help you check the seriousness of his intentions. In the event that a man wants to see only you in his plans for the future, then his feelings are sincere. Of course, directly he will not express what he feels. You just have to follow his hints and reservations.
Long-awaited return
Remember that one should never rush to a man with the words: "How could I be without you bad!". Come lover get together - meet him with dignity! Tears should never be shown at a meeting, and the appearance should meet all standards. Take them for beauty a whole week, surprise the former lover by the fact that you are irresistible in any situation. By the way, postpone the passionate embrace for later, and just by a friendly gesture at the meeting, touch his shoulder. Show the man that he still has to deserve your location!
If the long-awaited meeting of "reconciliation" takes place on your territory (in your home), suggest the man to sit down at the place where he always felt comfortable. So you can draw a parallel between the real state of things and your feelings. Show your lover that his place is still free, both in the house and in the heart.
The second chance to give a lover is when your heart is really free and in your life there is no other man who feels real feelings towards you, trying to make you happy. Also, you should understand if you want this return and what exactly you expect from it. After all, making peace with a man is one thing, and seeing yourself next to him in the future is quite another. It is not necessary to return to the one who feeds with promises, for, if so it was once, then it is not a fact that this will continue. Justify the former is not worth it. Remember that tearful remorse can not always be from the heart.
A man who wants to resume a relationship will not talk about his current relationship and other novels. He will try to get around this topic by side. And lastly, think about whether your former lover is guided by the fact that, having made up with you, you will become for him a "reserve option." So, before rushing "into the whirlpool with your head," think a hundred times, weigh all the pros and cons, and only then make the final decision.