The days preceding any holiday turn into days of anticipation and anticipation. What present will this time be? Unfortunately, not all men are able to provide a gift to their woman. Some members of the stronger sex generally believe that love does not need to be confirmed by gifts. So what should you do to get a gift on such a memorable day?
Psychologists say that men who do not perceive women's hints are not really stupid or harmful. The fact is that the consciousness of a strong half of humanity does not perceive words as women. And that a surprise for the holiday does not overshadow your mood, you should tell your loved one in advance something like "dear, do not worry, there is no need for surprises". Often men are psychologically tense because of the need to somehow beautifully and unexpectedly show their feelings on this day. After such words he, most likely, will relax, sigh freely and will think up something especial, bright, remembered. It is important that a man does not lose the desire to deliver his woman joy, and this feeling must be constantly fed, and do it right, elegantly, and then success is guaranteed.
First, fill the man with feelings. Psychologists developed a whole technique, a kind of special technique. First, lift both hands above your head, exhale the air with force, as if negative emotions leave you with the flow of air. Then, at the moment of inspiration, connect the palms of your hands and lower them to your chest, hold your breath for a while. Imagine that your body is simply saturated with love and fills your heart. Let it be an emerald stream in your imagination. And now imagine that your favorite is in front of you. Once again, make a strong exhalation, while pointing the palms parallel to the floor. At this moment, from the heart to the hands emerald flow of love will emerge, you just have to point it to the side where your companion is. It is believed that this kind of meditation is very inspiring to a man, he feels inspired.
Second, voice your desires. It should be remembered that the desire should be real for your man and correspond to his capabilities, not exceeding more than 30%. If a loved one can buy a set of underwear for you, do not ask for a diamond of several carats. If constantly to remind a man that he does not meet the needs of a woman and can not satisfy the desired requests, the result will be one: a man will develop a sense of inferiority. A partner with a sense of guilt will not give you joy.
Practical tips how to ask a man to make you a gift
Suppose you dream of a purse. Tell your man about it delicately, calmly, with love and a smile. "Dear, I really need a purse that looks like the one we saw in the store. Maybe you'll give it to me? "Even if he refuses, try to remain gentle and sweet, why would not it cost you. However, from time to time you become sad, occasionally sighing sadly. And then, as if by accident, confess to him that the bag does not come out of your head. Believe me, it will work.
Always remember that men think specifically, so tell about the gift of your dreams in every detail: where, what, what size, what color. It will be great if you can show the exact image of a dream gift.
Do not become a slave of desire
Always remember that a man must make his own decision, let him do it. The most important thing for a woman to keep herself in hand, while the beloved makes a decision and does not wind himself. And so that unfulfilled desires do not bring much suffering, learn to let them go with ease. Otherwise, the relationship may be under pressure, which will create unfulfilled expectations, and inevitably deteriorate. Whatever presents your man, it is important to take his gift so that the desire to please his woman with gifts he has not lost, but only strengthened and gave pleasure. Expressing warm emotions and gratitude at the moment of receiving a gift is the strongest motivation for a man, because he expects that a woman will appreciate a gift, time spent, efforts and, if approved, will try to continue.