In society, it is considered that there can be no friendship between a man and a woman. Even if a man and a woman are united by a common similarity of interests, work, mutual assistance, respect. It can all only be when friends belong to the same sex. And if in this situation he already has a family. Here, thinking about feelings and any intimate relationships with him is completely inappropriate. Such friendship in principle has the right to exist, only you need to also make friends with his second half - his lawful wife. She just needs to feel confident in this situation and trust that he would communicate with you. Otherwise, this is not right and not fair (in relation to it). No matter how superstitiously our society was, you can still be friends with anyone, the main thing is to do it right and with the mind, without overstepping the boundaries and boundaries of communication. It is simply necessary to understand very well the goals that will guide these relations. But only time will show what goals the married man's proposal, which needs friendship with you, hides. If you are ready to learn and try then in a good way. I think it's quite possible to distinguish friendly relations from intimate attention signs. Hints of intimacy and relationships are easy to recognize in any context of male communication. If you decide to do this, then remember one rule: with a married man, you must behave very carefully and always stick to the edges, because between your friendship can always run an unparalleled spark of feelings. Therefore, put it initially for yourself not as a man, but as a man-girl-friend. Understand that he is not yours, and you do not have any sense in sacrificing friendly relations in the name of "someone else's" love. And yet you accepted the offer and you are friends. Be ready for the fact that in many situations you simply can not understand it. After all, you have a different lifestyle. Is he family? you're single. He limits himself in this or that matter, constantly calls his wife and if she wants to immediately go to her. This is a special friend, which will be much harder to give advice than a simple classmate. By the way, just because of his state in marriage, he will show an obvious dominant over you. This will consist in the fact that a married man, always considers himself more experienced in life and constantly, will strive to impose on you the idea of what you still do not know at all, what real relationships and love in general are. For you, directly, such friendship can become a clear example of how things are going on in family life. You always, you can ask about this or that problem, which he will reveal to you from a completely different angle. From the point of view of a mature man. But if a married man offers to be friends, it's up to him to decide whether to do it, only you. The main thing, learn to distinguish his desires and do not forget to understand for yourself what you expect from it.
In order to prevent oversight, in such a situation it is worth knowing the psychology of the married man. Only then will you be able to take control of the situation and avoid any misunderstanding. After all, you, I think, are not at all tuned in, look for trouble on your own head. Come on, for the sake of clarity, we will try to find out: a married man, what he is like, how he treats other girls, what he wants from life and whether he really has such a value as a family, whether he needs a mistress. Let's conditionally divide our "zhenatikov" into three groups. To the first, we will refer, the most "safe" and loyal family man. These are painfully loyal husbands who really need normal friendship, since, except for the wife and several male friends, he has no millet. It does not sound ironic, it's a rare kind of man, but still in its small number inhabiting the planet Earth. To you he will, indeed, treat as a friend and nothing more. You recognize it, first of all, that all its themes will be reduced to one center core bearing the name "my family". The second group is men who absolutely do not know themselves: what they want from life. They are as if in free flight and at the same time are firmly attached to the family. You are treated as a reserve option (lover in reserve). But if you do not tempt him, they will never take the first step. They are generous to compliments and are sociable. In any of your phrases they try to find a hint and hint themselves. The main thing is to settle it on time. The third kind is husbands who do not represent their family life ideal if they do not have a mistress on the side. Any female for them is an exclusively sexual object. Here you should keep your eyes open, otherwise any misunderstood sign of attention, on your part, will be regarded as a clear sign of sympathy. He will try to drag you into bed in all possible ways and ways. And what kind of friendship is there? They are usually self-confident and arrogant. And if you do not want to feel like a mistress, you should give up friendship with such a man.
So from all of the above, the right to draw a conclusion is only for you. It's up to you to become a married man friend or mistress. This is the reality of life and nothing can be done about it. If you yourself do not really know how to answer a man for his proposal, then think about it and figure it out in yourself. And as a result, maybe you'll find out that you just want to try something more than just yourself - we're friends. Know that friendship and love have one common basis - respect and trust, so between a married man and an unmarried woman, both are possible and the edge of these feelings is very thin. And, most likely, when a married man offers to be friends, he means something more than just sitting in a cafe with a certain periodicity. Do you need such a person in life? ..