She is a confident woman, knows how to set goals and achieve them, the world revolves around her and everything in her tries to meet her high standards. She is the winner. All women dream of having such a status, but it only gets to those of us who have a special psychology. What kind of psychology is the winner, and can you learn how to win, if you did not see such incomes before?
Everyone recognizes that women's psychology is different from men's. And the ability to win from the point of view of psychology is also divided according to gender. Men are focused strictly on the result, and women - on the process of achieving it. Hence the different approaches to strategy and tactics in achieving success. Therefore, it makes sense to consider the women's victory apart from the male, and the way of the winner's movement is separate from the path of the winner's movement. What are the necessary steps to win the woman should make?
Believe in yourself
A regular, not an accidental victory is possible only on condition that the woman has a deep faith in herself and her unique nature. The winner is driven by the inner attitude and the indisputable conviction that neither she seeks success, but how much he finds her wherever she appears. And this is not even faith, but knowledge, which, unlike faith, can no longer be questioned. The winner just goes, and takes her. How to achieve such trust yourself? Only by practice! Perhaps at first the knowledge of one's own uniqueness will be based on accidental luck, intuitive forebodings and guesswork, but later, when the mistrustful mind with each new victory will see what is happening, the same as in thought, success will become the norm.
Target Orientation
It is difficult to feel like a winner if there is no goal. Not dreams or desires, but the goals and intentions to achieve it. It should inspire and motivate the movement, the essence of which is to extract the pleasure from being in the moment "here and now". Because we remember - a woman is happy only when satisfied with the process of movement. And the result (victory) is simply a statement of a fait accompli, as an inevitable consequence of the work done. How to find the goal? Listen to the voice of the soul, expand the comfort zone and go out of its "shores" to see, hear, taste, feel and touch a new experience. The soul will know its purpose and run after it skipping, attracting people along the way, situations and circumstances that will contribute to its imminent achievement.
Take control of emotions
One of the fundamental qualities of the winner is the ability to subordinate emotions to the mind. Uncontrolled emotions are the worst guides to the goal. Women are more difficult to fulfill this condition, because they often make decisions, giving in to the mood. But women's nature is not a hindrance to victory. And this is confirmed in all spheres of life, where women take the "palm tree", leaving the smart and able to easily move away from the emotions of men, far behind. How to cope with emotions? Turn the enemy into an ally and use dosed emotionality, as a confirmation of the truth. Or else put on emotions "short leash." This does not mean that you have to become an insensitive stone statue. Managing primarily follows the attitude towards the situation. It is primary. Emotions and feelings are secondary, and are the result of reactions to what is happening.
Expand your horizons
To be a winner in life, of course, it is not necessary to have several diplomas confirming high intellectual abilities and profound knowledge of everything in the world. For example, Coco Chanel did not have a guarantee of success in education, but this did not in the least prevent the famous Frenchwoman from gaining the status of a trendsetter for many generations. To become the winner in the fashionable field, she was helped by a broad outlook and the ability to find in the ordinary unusual, in the simple - the original, in the traditional - extravagant. How to see the invisible? He will learn new ways, allow himself to know the unknown so far and what the mind is actively interested in. An expanded horizon will provide an opportunity to be flexible in decision-making and easily adapt to changing circumstances without warning.
Communicate with the winners
Success in most cases - it's a gain. Of course, some women are lucky to be born in the family with the "gene" of the winner. They do not need to reinvent the wheel to master the principles of victory, because the success psychology along with the successful environment has inherited them. Fortunately, a predisposition to victory can be obtained through persistent self-improvement, or "catch" success from those who know how to achieve it. How to learn how to win? Introduce in their closest circle of people who think extraordinarily and have in the blood or in the mind the same victorious "gene". It will work trashed to the point of banality, but from this no less effective wisdom: "With whom you are led, that and you will be typed". In the environment of the winners dreams of success will quickly come in line with reality.
To rejoice at failures
Ordinary people offer to react to failure with joy, will perceive as mockery. The winners know, then for any failure, there is a potential opportunity to benefit from it. In other words, women-oriented women, find in each problem positive aspects that can be used to develop and advance towards the goal. Got fired? It's time to look for a talent in yourself that allows you to enter a qualitatively new level of life. Did the guy drop it? So, there is a place for a new man who will bring with him love and bright emotions, etc. How to learn to look at the defeat with the positive? It is necessary to start practicing on a small scale: enjoying bad weather, resting in traffic jams, using waiting time in queues for meditation and so on. The ability to find positive failures is achieved through relentless practice. The habit of seeing opportunities in problems is an expressive character trait of all the winners.