Requests for loved ones or how to find the second half?

When we hear the question: "And what are your requests for the beloved?", We immediately somehow imagine a handsome man who rushes to us on a white horse, grabs him by the waist and takes him far away to his beautiful castle ... It's all lyrics. In life, everything is completely different, and princes are rarely found, especially free princes. All the girls, like men, want to find their soul mate. Sometimes it takes years, and sometimes a couple of minutes. Every hour around us there is a huge number of people, potential partners, whom we most often just do not notice for various reasons. So what are our requests for loved ones or how to find the second half? Find a soul mate, with whom I would like to live all my life is not easy, but I want so that a person who loves us will sit next to us, ready to always help and support. How can you find him or her? Some people manage to do it without any effort, somehow by themselves. For example, they grew up together, made friends, learned, and eventually became related and became one friendly family.

And others spend their whole lives looking for a life partner ... Sometimes they find it quickly, and sometimes they change partners like gloves. And the rest, in general, without any effort, sit quietly at home and wait for the weather to come from the sea. And there are such workaholics that at work they forget about their personal life and quickly flies past them. And at the same time they are satisfied with everything, and they do not want to change anything. Psychologists say that only a person is sociable, calm and pleasant in communication, only if he has a settled personal life. Here you can recall two life situations that happened in reality. There lived to itself one very nice and temperamental girl. But I could not find myself a guy. A year already spent in search of a life partner, and found one local chat. Oh, how many there were different and different ... I do not even want to remember, but one day she started a chat with one boy. And at that time she was already in her first year at the university. Imagine her surprise when this guy turned out to be from her school, just from a parallel class.

To think, they studied together for 11 years, and saw only after 13. But they were really two kindred souls, understanding each other with a half-word. From this situation clearly shows that the girl has determined for herself the basic requests to her chosen one. And I found it. So every girl should know exactly what kind of guy she wants to see next to her. You do not need to look for a macho, it's not always the person who is ready to live with you until old age. This girl found a normal guy with a look, but in the shower and in character, he is unpredictable and incredibly romantic. This is an example of the fact that you do not need to look for an ideal from the outside, look for it inside a person. We have already talked about people who are fixated at work. And there are many examples. One beautiful, but modest girl lived with her parents. She worked hard, but only the guy was not there.

Sitting at home, she did not go to discos and parties. But one day she decided to go to visit. She was invited to one meeting, where she met an interesting man. He was older than her for five years, but something immediately attracted them to each other. It's hard to say exactly what, but it was a spark. And certainly not appearance, and after an hour of conversation it was already difficult for them to live without each other. And such situations are very often. They are all different and we can not know exactly where and when we will meet the guy or girl of our dreams, but, most importantly, it is never to give up. Requests for loved ones immediately disappear, if you met your eyes with a guy or girl, without whom or which your life was gray and dull. You can look for a rich guy, but you will find a simple guy who gets 400 bucks a month, but he will carry you on his hands. Or you will meet a businessman, but he will spend only a couple of hours with you to sleep ... What will you choose? What do you do? Whether you choose your requests or true love: is that the question?