Rules for dating a guy online

To meet a guy on the network, first of all, you need to answer yourself to the question: why do you want to do this? For friendship, just for sex or for a serious relationship, which can result in marriage? And, when you view the profiles of the guys you like, be sure to look at how they themselves answer this question (on all serious dating sites he is included in the questionnaire).



In addition, you need to create your own profile on this site. Without it, you can not use most of the useful features that the site offers you. For example, on one of the famous dating sites you can view the profiles of guys and without registration, but you can not write them a personal message on the site system. That is, you can contact the guy you like only if he left his or her email address or phone number publicly available. One of the most important rules for a successful acquaintance with a guy in the network - your questionnaire should favorably differ from all other forms on this site. How - it's up to you. You can lay out the most beautiful photo (only it is better not to upload photos in a swimsuit or without it, if you are getting acquainted for long and serious relationships - you will be misunderstood), you can come up with a bright motto. If you have unusual, interesting hobbies - feel free to write them too. Everyone wants to communicate with such a person with whom there is something to talk about - this rule is valid not only when meeting in the network, but also in person. And do not forget about this at the correspondence - think up something more interesting than the banal phrases "how are you" and "what are you doing".

If you want to write more to you, you need to monitor your profile. Update it (who will find it on some third or fourth ten pages?), Add new photos. You can also use paid services, which sites also often provide. As a rule, they are not very expensive, and, for example, the offer to place a questionnaire for a certain period on the first page of the site can be very useful.

If you want to independently view the questionnaires of the guys, then you will be subject to other rules of online dating. Of course, your questionnaire should still be interesting (after all, a young man you like will review it when you write to him), but it is not for you the main thing. The main thing is to find a worthy guy and write to him so that he becomes interested in you (here the same rules apply as for the registration of the questionnaire - be nontrivial).

It makes sense to create three e-mails specifically for online dating. Write the guy you liked from all three addresses, in one you describe all your worst sides, in another - tell about yourself as you really are, and in the third decorate yourself as much as possible. And then look at which letter he will answer. As a rule, if a guy answers all three letters, he does not take a serious interest in online dating, and most likely, it will not go beyond virtual communication. If the guy answers only to the address where you presented yourself with the ideal - the guy is looking for him, and therefore, the relationship with him is likely to be unpromising. But if he answered that letter, where you are described in real light, boldly tie a further conversation - these relations have a prospect.

The most important rule of safety when meeting with guys on the network - never, without recognizing the person in person, do not give a home phone, and even more so, your address. Do not tell me how to get to your house. But a mobile phone can be given, moreover, it is better not to delay the stage of correspondence, talk with a guy on the phone, and for the third or fourth time and agree on a meeting. No correspondence will not let you know about a person more than personal communication. Of course, do not agree to the first meeting in a deserted place or at home - it does not matter whether he or you. But a crowded park, city center or cafe will do the best.

These are the simple rules for dating a guy online. Of course, every girl herself chooses the strategy and tactics of communication with the opposite sex, including in the network, but the rules of security must always be followed, and among the other rules everyone will find something interesting for her. More and more people today are finding their destiny online and who knows, maybe she is waiting for you on the dating site.