But for some reason in everyday life everything is somehow not so. Many after the first sex part forever, although it seemed that they loved each other. How it happens. That the first intimacy was, and the desire to be together was gone. And anyway, can the first time be perfect, how to do everything beautifully and romantically.
If you are told that after the first sex you will find out whether you are compatible with your partner or not - do not believe it. Perhaps, there will be more than one of your intimate meetings, while you can understand it. But not after the first time.
And the reason to understand is simple. Just during sex with a new partner, anything can happen. The situation is unusual and you can not completely relax, you will feel constrained, tense. May interfere with your ignorance of what your partner prefers. After all, we are all different and our desires also do not resemble each other's desires. All are individual, especially in sex. Someone strong and gentle, or on the contrary, impatient. Someone commands, and someone obeys.
Of course, there is incompatibility in a broad sense. For example, people's attitude towards sex. There are people who need sex as air, they can not live without emotions arising during sex. They do not represent their lives without sex. Their life is passion, drive and emotion. Sex is their life and it can be traced usually even in the way they dress. Such people always flirt and persistence is not theirs. Their novels, like the seasons, replace each other constantly.
But there is also conjugal sex, and in sexual terms, no less saturated. Married life - these are just those sex, but also love, passion and not falling over the years attraction to each other. Such a pair will retain for many years the fire and flirtation, the fascination of meetings and every time the novelty of sensations. They perfectly know each other and already anticipate desires.
But there are people of a completely different kind. They are absolutely indifferent to sex. For them, in their family life, sex is something insignificant and optional. But they, too, are happy in their own way.
Thus, if there is a meeting of two people with different attitudes toward sex, then complete incompatibility results. In such situations, the one to whom sex is important, begins to seek adventure on the side. Such couples will not last long together. Therefore, trying to understand your compatibility right on the first date, you can get a lot of disappointments afterwards. We have to wait, time is a great thing. If after the first, maybe even not very successful meeting, you still want to go forward in a relationship. Think, what if it's love?
Usually, all women are asked one question - whether right away, on the first date, agree to sex. Maybe it's worth it to wait, for a while. And of course, everyone decides this question for themselves.
And what do men think about this issue? In the male part of society there are two, and completely opposite opinions. The first half believes that if sex occurs more quickly, the less the relationship will last. The second part of men say that when there is a real feeling there is no need to delay with sex.
The fine line in the relationship is very easy to step over, but what happens next, usually no one knows. Sociologists say that most women who had sex on the first date later regretted it. Those who have sex on a first date are confident people.
Now let's talk about what should be sex, so as not to get disappointed.
After all, it's not always the first closeness that becomes a tremendous event in your life. It can happen and the opposite - shock and failure. First, do not do what you have to regret. And so remember that you can not do without a condom. Choose the right moment and gently, but persistently, tell the partner about it. In case of refusal, think about it. Risk, of course, is a noble cause. But do you need this.
And now about the romance, because you have to prepare and do everything beautifully and romantically ... And again we remember the movie. Why are erotic films so attractive? Yes, it's just that everything is beautiful, as in the picture, and certainly not the same as in life. But everything is in our hands. You can and need to diversify sex and create a comfortable environment. Sex under the blanket is a weak romance. You do not see each other, and in fact not only men like eyes. Of course, you can argue, it's cold at home and not at all to romance. And if you stock up a heater, or even better with an electric fireplace with a fire simulation. Both romantic and warm.
Most have sex completely naked, and women take off even the decoration. Try undressing turn into a prelude, and not dive naked right into bed. But most importantly, leave jewelry on your body, this excites men.
And do not forget that in a modern apartment, the bed is not the only place for sex. True, if the bed is sex-drom and bedding corresponds to the moment, then this is the place to be. Be creative, and sex will be unforgettable.
One of the important moments in sex. Do not forget about compliments, admire each other. Talk about your feelings. We love not only our eyes, but our ears, especially women. The voice is an important part of our sexuality.
It is very important what kind of lighting you choose. Sex in the twilight, with a lighted nightlight, or even better with candles or moonlight, all this, of course, beautiful and romantic. Fantasize. Lighting will change the look of your body, the twilight will give you the opportunity to liberate and feel self-confidence, and also remove the complexes about your body.
Summing up - decided on an intimate date with a new partner, then think about it well. Make a decision consciously. Dare, because now you know that the first sex can be made beautiful and romantic and remember about it with your soul mate.