"In love, women are professionals, and men are lovers. They want - like, they want - no! "- said the French film director Francois Truffaut. We can only guess: love us men, create the appearance of love or they are not at all capable of this feeling. To philosophize and reason about the ability of men to love can be until the matter does not touch his own heart. But when it comes to a man who makes your heart beat faster, we can not make an accurate diagnosis. But you do not want to live with illusions and build castles that will never become a real home for love.
Bring your man to the water and find out if he likes you or not, a simple test will help. It is developed by psychologists and in its results contains recommendations. Find out the truth about what your man feels to you by following the instructions:
- Answer honestly the questions of the test, choosing from the proposed options the one that best describes your relationship.
- Write a question number and a variant of your answer on the sheet.
- Use the table below to calculate the scores and find out the result by the sum of your scores.
Test questions
- Who in your couple makes the most decisions?
A. You are all discussing and making important decisions together. The last word is always left for the man.
In . Principal decisions are often made by you.
- How does your man react to your personal successes, achievements, victories?
A. More often a man simply keeps silent, and his reaction is difficult to understand.
B. Does not want to recognize your successes and tries to devalue them by criticism.
In . Always sincerely rejoices at your every victory and does not stint on praise.
- Is your man sincerely in love for you?
A. He is not constant in love. You suspect that he has a parallel relationship.
B. You are sure that all of your man's love affairs are far in the past. Nobody needs him except you.
In . A man can not forget his last love.
- When you have a bad mood or do you feel bad, how does your man behave?
A. A man is angry with your condition, and he does not consider it necessary to restrain his anger, irritation or resentment.
B. With understanding refers to your mood, becomes especially attentive and sensitive.
B. Most often in such moments, keeps away, trying not to interfere with your suffering, and does not try to influence your health in any way.
- How do you solve financial issues in your relationship?
A. You easily reach a consensus in discussing the upcoming costs.
B. You often argue in heated debates about the need to buy.
In . The man accuses you of extravagance and inability to competently manage finances.
- How does your man treat your friends and family?
A. The spirit does not tolerate your friends, friends or relatives.
B. Loves when you collect your friends, acquaintances. He likes to communicate with people close to you.
In . Heroically tolerated by your close environment, but special pleasure from communication with them does not feel.
- Does your man respect your personal space?
A. A man is sure that he has every right to invade your personal territory. He opens your pages in social networks, looks through the phone, reads correspondence.
B. Your personal space for him is a shrine that he will never break without your permission.
In . He is actively interested in your personal affairs, and occasionally asks you to show him what you think does not concern him.
- How does your man feel about working at home?
A. He considers domestic duties to be exclusively female.
B. Understands all the complexity of homework and is ready to help you in fulfilling any household duties.
In . The strongest man's shoulders lay most of the economic work.
- How does your man manifest himself during intimacy?
A. The man is selfish. His pleasure always comes first.
B. For a man, your pleasure is no less important than his own.
In . A man kicks from your orgasms, and sometimes is ready to give pleasure to you without insisting on mutual satisfaction.
- What behavioral tactics does your man choose in the society of other women?
A. Wherever a man would appear, he is gallant and fascinates all women.
B. The man is not just charming. He behaves like a real alpha male.
In . The man closes, stops, and, in general, tries to avoid women's companies.
Test results
From 46 to 60 points. You can only envy. Your man loves you unconditionally, sincerely and faithfully. Other men should take a master class from him. If you also know how to love him that much, it's time to write legends about your relationship, write novels, compose music and make films. Take care of this love. It is very rare.
From 31 to 47 points. Your man loves you. Perhaps with his own love, and not as selflessly as you would like, but he values your relationship very much. If you dream that he loved you more, show by your own example how you should love: sincerely, without insisting on reciprocity, without claims and demands. Just love. It is very captivating and evokes a reciprocal feeling.
From 24 to 30 points. The feeling that a man feels for you is hard to call love. Most likely, some circumstances just keep him near you. Your relationship requires an urgent audit. And before you look for a reason in a man, reconsider your values and answer yourself honestly: do you love yourself? If the answer is positive, and you do not dissimulate, chase even the thought that this man is your half.
Less than 24 points. If you think that a man loves you, then how does he hate you? He has more love for the TV than for you. Forget it. Let go! Drive out! Give it to your damn girlfriend! Do right now what will save you from the humiliation, pain and sorrow that this "love" brings with it. This man does not deserve you!