Girls like to dress up, men look at beautiful girls. But if a girl often changes her images, becoming a "vamp", then "Alyonushka", a man will be very hard ...
How often did he, after her unsuccessful or perhaps too successful experiments, say: "This is not the woman I worshiped!" And the girls want to change, often change their images and "fit" socially.
A man loves a girl as a whole, but reacts yet to one of the channels of perception. If he is shivering from the smell of her body, it will be easier for her to change her image. But if the visual channel is most involved, then if the girl often changes the images, the relationship is in danger.
Age changes
Year after year we become not only wiser, but, unfortunately, older. Small wrinkles in the corners of the eyes, not too perfect knees after the winter "zazhory" - all this you want to hide. And instead of "slightly open" something else. Make a bright make-up or dye your hair in red or no less bright, with a tempting name "noble burgund". Change the image as a whole.
But it's still going home anyway! However, no one is able to change internally for one trip to a hairdresser's or a beauty salon. And unless you are a supporter of constant cardinal changes, your man will surely understand that inside you are the same. If so be it - honor to him and praise. If not - why do you need an "alien" from the planet Mars, who is not ready to understand and accept you?
An exception, perhaps, is only cardinal plastic surgery. Do you want to make "small melons" from "peaches", or "change your face"? Try to understand your wife now. He is a witness and perhaps the cause of that little wrinkle on your forehead, those charming little dimples in the corners of your mouth ... Pity him for his memory, because he values you for it, and is not at all ready to see the unsmiling "goggle-eyed fish" or the second Pamela Anderson in the house ...
Social changes
Sometimes a girl often changes her images because of social changes. Another status dictates a different style. Moms and successful business ladies, as well as secretaries in offices dress differently. The first is allowed to be "domestic", and the second are forced to make a strict hairstyle and look stylish and strict - otherwise the subordinates will be left out, and all efforts will go to nothing.
But when girls often change images, it can be fraught. After all, from us and loved ones, and bosses, and dear customers expect stability. Each change of the image is an additional excitement for them, which can be reflected in their careers and relationships.
Perhaps you want to be a "bitch for an hour," or try on the image of a wealthy lady, a secular lioness ... But the image will never replace the present inner self-awareness. Most likely, if you feel an inner dissatisfaction with your social position, you should work with a psychologist.
Why do you want to be different?
We change hairstyles and outfits, style and image - especially when we are ill, heavy, want to unwind and stop thinking about the sad. Not always these changes to us to face, and having woken up from a spleen, will not want urgently «to return all back».
But still we are forced to take into account the opinion of the man who is near. After all, incomparably harder, if he is accustomed to seeing a red-haired girl nearby, and suddenly a sultry brunette appears instead of his beloved.
Worthy replacement
It seems, even in the black moments of despair, do not immediately run to the stylist. It is worth looking for other ways of self-expression and distraction from heavy thoughts. This can be creativity (even if you do not need these pictures in the style of "string art").
Poems and prose - some so gain fame, and sometimes - and a serious source of income. Cooking - at least your loved ones will be satisfied.
Traveling even within your home city and suburbs - fresh air and youth, walks and a healthy complexion - these are practically synonymous.