The bouquet, thrown by the bride to unmarried girls, was many times in your hands, but you are still free. "Everything, this year is mandatory," - you give your word, and again something does not add up. You are not alone, but each time, presenting the next challenger next to "in sorrow and joy," something in the chest betrayalski ekaet: not that. Again, not that ... Yes, and he is unlikely to like my mother, and friends ... Let's try to understand that you are embarrassed in the right way to get married. And why once again there is a situation when "I want, and pricked."
Kissed-hugged
To love is to kiss and embrace, to give flowers, to bring money, to help cook food, and to spare nothing for each other. "People get married in order for them to have a child and not to be lonely to anyone, so that they can go somewhere together or build something, for example, or buy a dog ..." It's funny, but if you think about it, it's very reasonable. The desire not to be separated, the willingness to support each other morally and materially, the desire to please, raise children, lead everyday life ... A simple picture of family life. And everything in it is clear, everything is harmonious.
You are able to present your hero in such different forms, and - most importantly - are you ready to give birth to a child from him? Perhaps for a woman this is the most important indicator of the seriousness of her feelings. If everything has converged, say the coveted "yes."
Listen to the heart
Do you think this approach is prosaic for the right way to get married? Of course, no one has canceled feelings, but, embraced by them, you risk noticing obvious things. So do not reject the opinion of my mother, listen to your friends. And ... do as you see fit.
Of course, it's so good to say when your only one is already found. And what if no one is expected to marry on the horizon? Do not despair! There are many ways that will lead you to the goal, and we will tell about them. This is not prose, but a wonderful opportunity to arrange a destiny. How?
Two lonelies met
They say that ideal couples are formed then and get married, when the partners seem a little alike. Common interests are also welcome!
If you both appreciate good food, you will not have any disagreements when buying food or choosing a restaurant. Do you like to hike? There will be no disputes, where to go!
But the similarity should not be absolute - we need diversity and that someone replenishes our shortcomings. Are you both terrible spoilers? But who will manage the family budget?
You still have not met your one and do not even know where to look for it? And why do not you use the services of a marriage agency in order to get married?
You hesitate to contact a marriage agency to marry? Not worth it! Confidentiality is guaranteed for the right way to get married. Moreover, it is safer than street acquaintance. And the choice of potential spouses is much more extensive. The main thing is to choose a good, trustworthy company.
Matchmakers and pimps
If you want to find a partner for intimate meetings, turn to dating agencies. Looking for a husband - go to the marriage: they are local, international and universal.
Local people work with people living in the region where they are located. Their advantage is personal acquaintance of employees with each client, which guarantees maximum safety and truthfulness of information about applicants.
International deal with the issue of Russian brides marrying foreigners. Sometimes they specialize in a particular country - Germany, the United States. It is important to choose the company that has been working for more than one year: in this case, it has a broader database, and certainly there is information about marriage scams. Large companies also have connections with travel agencies, translators, whose services will be needed, when you want to meet with a chosen one. Universal work both personally with customers and electronic catalogs.
For special cases
Most agencies for admission to marriage adhere to the principle of "ladies free of charge." But if you want to be dealt with personally and more carefully with you, you will already have to pay for it.
What services should I use at the agency? Consultation of a psychologist. Will help to understand yourself and your desires, adjust the requirements for a partner. Get rid of the inferiority complex, feelings of guilt and other problems, to believe in yourself and the possibility of a happy marriage - this is especially true for those who survived the divorce or betrayal of a loved one.
Services of the make-up artist. You will be taught to give yourself in a favorable light. With the help of cosmetics and attire to correct embarrassing (especially you yourself) features of the figure and appearance. PHOTOSESSION. You will be made a professional portfolio, designed to attract the opposite sex. Legal assistance. When business will go to wedding, will not prevent to secure itself by means of the marriage contract.
The agency can also arrange meetings, hotel reservations and even escorts. You can be offered to improve the knowledge of a foreign language (if you are going abroad), attend personal growth and etiquette trainings.
Getting to know you blind
A special category is dating sites. Their main plus coincides with the main disadvantage: accessibility and submission of themselves in the most favorable light. And the truth can be very far from fiction. Experienced users of such sites advise ...
Get a mailbox and a mobile phone specially for contacts - in the "case of what" they are easy to change.
First, give yourself only the most general information. Discuss hobbies and interests, and not the level of income and favorite places of overseas rest.
Do not give in to provocative questions, otherwise you will involuntarily give out unnecessary information, for which it was calculated. It's better to laugh it off.
Place photos with low resolution - they can not be used for "dirty purposes".
Insist that the applicant send a few pictures! (preferably in an informal setting). Carefully consider the details.
Trust your intuition: if it seems that something is going wrong, stop the relationship. Better to be safe than bitterly sorry.
The meeting "in real life" should be preceded by the stages of census and telephone communication. Check, more information, the easier it is to avoid trouble.