After all, most of these girls suffer from the fact that their desires are not justified, that they get the wrong anticipated and best feelings. With such a problem associated with the fact that there is no female, necessary for sex orgasm, it is sometimes difficult to share even with the best friend. And with your favorite man and even more so. It is worth noting that the female half of society is much harder to achieve the desired orgasm in contrast to the male. To achieve the goal, the first thing for girls is to stop digging into themselves and look for all sorts of perpetrators of this problem. You just need to try to find a way out of it by resorting to the help of your loved one, with whom it will be much easier and faster to solve it.
We are looking for reasons. Sexual ecstasy by any girl is achieved in an individual, concrete way. Some girls prefer laughter, some, on the contrary - crying, the other of them like to scream and scratch their partner, and still others prefer to freeze. But do not despair and be upset by those girls who do not know what to do with sex in order to experience an uncharted yet very welcome sense of orgasm. Still ahead. After all, in order to get a full pleasure from intimacy with your loved one, you need to understand yourself first. It is necessary to try to determine the true cause and try to eliminate it in the right way.
Women's fears . The most common and main fears of most women associated with sexual, intimate relationships are doubts and insecurities. The girl in this case is simply afraid not to live up to the expectations, goals, sexual preferences of her love partner. She is also afraid that because of these reasons, he will simply refuse further meetings with her in the future. Such fears are naturally associated with all kinds of complexes of the beautiful half of society. They can be formed because of any failures, failures in the girl's intimate life, or be formed during some passed life stage.
Also, the simple thoughts of a girl who can not leave her head even in bed with a man can become the main obstacles in achieving a true orgasm. Such thoughts simply can not be directed to the right way, to the right wave of getting only pleasant. Thoughts can be connected with anything only, in particular, even with the goals of protection. After all, most girls are embarrassed to talk about the methods of protection, which are so necessary and necessary at the moment.
An inappropriate situation or not quite a convenient time for sexual pleasures can become another fear of a woman. After all, girls are considered to be the best place and the right time will be only those that are pre-planned. But many are faced with the problem of what to do if there is no orgasm in those cases when it seems that all the conditions for obtaining the highest sexual desire are pre-planned and provided. Although most of them miss the moment that it is in extreme, unpredictable, unexpected situations, there is a great chance of achieving the desired gain. But the reason for dissatisfaction and non-receipt of orgasm can be simply an inexperienced person, moreover, a selfish partner or lack of understanding and trust in a relationship with a particular man.
We are looking for solutions . The first thing for a girl who does not have an orgasm when having sex is to determine the inner harmony. Female orgasm, or rather his absence - is a common problem. It is necessary to try as accurately and thoroughly to study your body, find all your weaknesses and erogenous zones. After all, in order that a girl must necessarily want a man, it is necessary that the girl herself must necessarily want herself. And for this you need to find those areas of your body, which you need to point out to the man at the beginning of the most sexual process. In order that the girl could still get the most desired. But with all this it is necessary to disconnect all unnecessary and disturbing thoughts, it is better to think of yourself as your beloved and your beloved, desired man.
For beginners in terms of sexual relations, you can advise to study the technique of exercises Kegel, with the help of which the right muscles of the adorer are involved. Such exercises can give a woman greater self-confidence, since after their application in practice in bed with a loved one you can achieve a tremendous sensation effect. And from such a temptress it will be very difficult and difficult to leave.
To talk frankly . In case if there is no orgasm during sex, this problem must be overcome by both partners. Only through joint efforts can you achieve the right, right result, which does not contradict any of your loved ones. Or rather, it is necessary to try delicately, gently and without any pretensions to explain to your loved one about such an important problem as the lack of orgasm. Moreover, if two people are quite long in the gap, a fairly strong and respectful relationship. Do not tolerate not completely satisfied sexual relations. If the partner really wants a serious, long, lasting relationship with the girl, he will be able to understand what has been said to her, and even treat with such respect a trustful impulse.
The most suitable moment. It is worthwhile to understand that the time and place for frank conversation should not be chosen when you are already directly in bed with your loved one. Especially to express it in a tone of reproach and discontent, it can forever ruin your love relations. It will be better only when a loved one becomes an ally, but not an enemy.
You can find a way out by requesting that an immediate "ritual" could be immediate affection and gratification. Or just hint at him about your most exciting zones and poses. You can also ask the partner to change the tempo, which is important in this case.
To receive as much pleasure as possible from every sexual relationship, to begin with, a woman simply needs to love herself for who she is and what she really is. It is love of oneself that can become the simplest solution in the task of obtaining orgasm.